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About Mark Behar
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Expertise
Almost any question or concern about sexually transmitted infections, abnormal Pap smears, anal cytology (anal "Pap smears"), gay men's health issues. There is no such thing as “d/d free” or “clean” (free of infection), so why do so many of us deceive ourselves into thinking that some people are indeed totally free from a potentially infectious disease, like HIV, herpes, hepatitis, syphilis, chlamydia, warts, gonorrhea, etc., just because they say so? Clinical laboratory tests are not perfect, and having a “negative” or “nonreactive” test does not mean that a person is free from infection. Perhaps at the moment the test was taken, the person was uninfected; or, perhaps, the test wasn’t sensitive enough to detect presence of the infection. There is really no way that anyone can determine that they are truly “disease free,” and there are over a hundred of infectious conditions that can be spread without your knowing anything. Rather than trying to “prescreen” or “serosort” a potential sex-mate with deceptive questions that are impossible to know by today’s technologies, a wiser option may be to consider everyone infected with something, and either use appropriate protective measures (“safer sex”), or accept the responsibility and conseqences of possibly “catching” something from someone who’s hotter than expected (pun intended!). There is much research that supports the contention that an HIV positive person reliably taking HIV medications, and having an undetectable viral load, presents a lower risk for transmission of HIV than people who may think or say they are HIV negative, but are not. Food for thought!

Experience
Family Practice PA since 1981; Volunteer Clinician for Brady East STD (BESTD) Clinic, Milwaukee, since 1977; answer STD questions submitted to their web site. Professionally lectured at national and regional Physician Assistant and Nurse Practitioner conferences, and at national gay & lesbian health conferences on topics including HIV/AIDS, herpes, hepatitis, STDs, human papilloma virus (the cause of venereal warts), abnormal Pap smears, gay and lesbian health issues, among others.

Organizations
Distinguished Fellow, American Academy of Physician Assistants; Co-Founder, Lesbian, Bisexual, & Gay Physician Assistant Caucus of the American Academy of Physician Assistants, Inc.; Wisconsin Academy of Physician Assistants; Florida Academy of Physician Assistants; American Society of Colposcopy and Cervical Pathology (ASCCP)

Publications
Journal of the American Academy of Physician Assistants (JAPA)

Education/Credentials
Physician Assistant Certified, since 1982; Masters in Physician Assistant Studies; Colposcopy Recognition Award, American Society of Colposcopy and Cervical Pathology (ASCCP);

Awards and Honors
Colposcopy Recognition Award (CRA), from the American Association of Colposcopy and Cervical Pathology

Past/Present Clients
Brady East STD Clinic, Milwaukee, WI

   

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Could I be infected with hiv?11/17/2008Mark Behar
  Q: Could I be infected with hiv when a piercing gun is used to pierce my nose?
  A: Yes, it is theoretically possible for someone to get infected with either hepatitis B or HIV from a ...
High thigh/buttock pimple-like bump11/17/2008Mark Behar
  Q: This is more like a statement, lol: I have a consistent pimple-like bump that is big in size ...
  A: It sounds like the beginning of an abscess, that may or may not be related to MRSA. If it is ...
stds11/15/2008Diane W
  Q: Do condoms protect against all STD's? If i am having sex with a woman I don't know very well what ...
  A: Like I said, I cannot recommend that you have sex with a woman you don't know well. I think the ...
HPV11/15/2008Mark Behar
  Q: After 3 years of trying to figure out what the hell was wrong with me, I finally got diagnosed with ...
  A: Karian, Without looking up details, I cannot say exactly. It is about 60-80% of all people with HPV ...
stds11/14/2008Diane W
  Q: Do condoms protect against all STD's? If i am having sex with a woman I don't know very well what ...
  A: No, condoms do not always protect from STDs. I would advise you not to have sex and just enjoy your ...
HIV11/14/2008Jordan
  Q: Actually 6 weeks back i had paid sex using condom. while doing sex i touched my fingers to my ...
  A: The virus that causes HIV/AIDS dies within a few seconds outside of the body (3 seconds or less). If ...
one question regarding transmission11/13/2008Mark Behar
  Q: sir, in your last reply to me you said that exposure is necessary for infection. one question that ...
  A: I think we have a language barrier that is preventing our communicating effectively. If a person is ...
Boils11/13/2008Mark Behar
  Q: I've been diagnosed with boils by my physician. they are on my upper thigh and groin area. I'm not ...
  A: Sorry to hear about your boils. Frequently, these annoying skin conditions are caused by a germ ...
HumanPapillomaVirus11/12/2008Jordan
  Q: Jordan Nice to meet you I have a question about the Human Papilloma Virus: yesterday my brother's ...
  A: HPV can be a tricky and confusing virus. Two thirds of women will eventually contract the virus and ...
I need your opinion please11/12/2008Mark Behar
  Q: About 3 months ago in Thailand I got stupid drunk and came to my hotel with sex worker which looked ...
  A: You didn't get stupid and lose control; you were just acting like most other guys. Don't beat ...
please help me11/12/2008Diane W
  Q: I ask Ian this question but he said it was outside of my expertise, please help me with any feedback ...
  A: The 13 week test is good but I have read to have another test at 6 months. Have you gone to another ...
HPV11/12/2008Mark Behar
  Q: After 3 years of trying to figure out what the hell was wrong with me, I finally got diagnosed with ...
  A: Gee, I'm sorry it took so long for you to find out what was wrong. Some vulvar/vaginal skin ...
please help me11/11/2008Diane W
  Q: I ask Ian this question but he said it was outside of my expertise, please help me with any feedback ...
  A: I am not a doctor so I can just give you my opinion. I recommend you to try to find another doctor ...
Confusion: Exposure vs. Infection with HIV?11/11/2008Mark Behar
  Q: what is "exposure to HIV" & what is "infected with HIV"? are these 2 different? is it necessary to ...
  A: There is no good way to precisely assess your risks from these types of activities. It is VERY ...
Kissing cooties??11/11/2008Jordan
  Q: it really is a great help. you have answered a question for me in the past and seem to know exactly ...
  A: I am glad that I have helped you in the past and hopefully I can this time. I am going to be blunt ...
confusion???11/11/2008Jordan
  Q: what is "exposure to HIV" & what is "infected with HIV"? are these 2 different? is it necessary to ...
  A: There is a difference. Exposure to HIV means that the virus has been in close contact with an ...
Confusion: Exposure vs. Infection with HIV?11/11/2008Mark Behar
  Q: what is "exposure to HIV" & what is "infected with HIV"? are these 2 different? is it necessary to ...
  A: Exposure to HIV or any other infectious germ means that the germ had entered into your body; it ...
Spots11/10/2008Mark Behar
  Q: ok.. So I was wondering, I am a little paranoid when it comes to these kinds of things... I just ...
  A: I'm glad I was available to reassure you. There is no reason to feel "stupid" as most of us are not ...
Sex transmitted disease test11/10/2008Jordan
  Q: First of all, thanx for the opportunity of making your knowledge available. I'm in a relation-ship ...
  A: It is always great to hear of individuals being responsible and taking their health serious. Getting ...
Could i have an STD?11/10/2008Mark Behar
  Q: my name is Julie and I am 18 years old. A couple months ago, maybe...very beginning of October, I ...
  A: I understand your reluctance to see a health care provider, however, you may find good care through ...
scared please help11/10/2008Jordan
  Q: i had protected intercourse with a prostitute who was having vaginal bleeding(the end of her ...
  A: It is difficult to put it to a percentage. I would not say that it is a 100% possible, but more like ...
Follow up..11/9/2008Jordan
  Q: I asked this question to mark... ok.. So I was wondering, I am a little paranoid when it comes to ...
  A: It is very possible that you may have spread the fungus to your penis. Fungus' are easily spread ...
Spots11/9/2008Mark Behar
  Q: ok.. So I was wondering, I am a little paranoid when it comes to these kinds of things... I just ...
  A: Your doctor or health care provider could provide you with the best possible advice and reassurance ...
scared please help11/9/2008Jordan
  Q: i had protected intercourse with a prostitute who was having vaginal bleeding(the end of her ...
  A: If she was positive for HIV then the blood from her period would contain the virus. Here is some ...
window period for HIV RNA PCR test11/9/2008Mark Behar
  Q: sir, what is the window period for RNA PCR test for HIV. is it 12 days or 2 weeks. how accurate is ...
  A: I'm sorry, but I do not know the technical details of this particular testing technology. I would ...
Gloves not worn for brazilian wax...11/9/2008Jordan
  Q: Today I got a brazilian wax done at a salon and am highly concerned that I may have contracted a STD ...
  A: I'm sorry that my clarity and knowledge were not very good.
STD11/9/2008Mark Behar
  Q: I recently performed oral sex on a man. It was dark and the first time that I had actually touched ...
  A: It is difficult to know what those blood stains could have come from. Perhaps a scratch from an ...
Genital Warts?11/8/2008Jordan
  Q: recently I have discovered to what i believe to be is genital warts. I am 18 years old and have had ...
  A: By merely picking them off you are not removing the virus, but actually better exposing it to the ...
anal sex11/8/2008Mark Behar
  Q: its my first time having anal sex and i was wondering if my boyfriend cums inside me while having ...
  A: Somewhat like the adage of "an arrow going up must come down," in terms of anal sex, if boyfriends ...
red spots under penis11/8/2008Mark Behar
  Q: ok i woke up this morining and i had these red spots under my penis head they dont hurt or itch ...
  A: Red spots that don't hurt or itch or otherwise bother you are probably just mild irritation that can ...
herpies11/7/2008Jordan
  Q: Can my girlfreind and i have sex with no comdon if nether of us have any leshions thank you
  A: I am taking it that both of you have genital herpes. But, what you need to know is what strain of ...
sexual disease?11/7/2008Mark Behar
  Q: After one month i had a white paste on my forskin whether it is an desease or any thing else.
  A: The white pastey substance on your foreskin is probably a normal variant, but it could also be ...
skin blemish?11/7/2008Jordan
  Q: Is it possible to get skin blemishes around the groin region. I have done some studying on the ...
  A: Yes, it is very possible to get a pimple around the groin area. You have pores all over your body ...
Hiv infection11/6/2008Mark Behar
  Q: 2 weeks ago I had unprotected oral sex with a prostitute (in south africa). I noticed afterwards ...
  A: The scrapes and "missing" skin from your penis and groin rash probably means that you have a minor ...
HIV infection possibility11/6/2008Jordan
  Q: 2 weeks ago I had unprotected oral sex with a prostitute (in south africa). I noticed afterwards ...
  A: It usually takes months for symptoms to show-up after contracting HIV and the symptoms that you can ...
Groin Itch11/6/2008Mark Behar
  Q: I am a 19 year old gay college student from Kansas. Recently I met a gay male. Long story short, I ...
  A: Getting a blowjob (receiving fellatio, getting sucked off) is a fairly low risk sexual activity, but ...
Possible Pearly Penile Papules11/5/2008Jordan
  Q: I am a 23 years uncircumcised old male. About a year ago I had a oral sex with my girlfriend for the ...
  A: The second test that they gave her was either a swab (PAP) or blood test, which are both more ...
Possible Pearly Penile Papules11/5/2008Mark Behar
  Q: I am a 23 years uncircumcised old male. About a year ago I had a oral sex with my girlfriend for the ...
  A: Without an exam, or a good photograph, it is difficult to tell you what you may have, if anything at ...
is there a chance i have a disease?11/5/2008Diane W
  Q: i have given oral sex many times to a boy that i didn't know very well and i swallowed his semen. i ...
  A: I think that you should probably have STD testing done. It's not the semen that's the problem, it ...
Continuing symptoms from HSV-211/5/2008Jordan
  Q: I found out a few months ago that I had HSV-2 after having my first outbreak. Even though it has ...
  A: The pain that you were discribing happens when the virus is becomming "active", though the virus ...

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