Sexually Transmitted Diseases/Massage to penis and Risk of HIV


QUESTION: Thank you from bottom of my heart for answering. (I am 30 year old male from India.Recently, had full body massage by a man (for an hour).He massaged my penis also with foreskin completely pulled back (5-6 mins.)During which I ejaculated on his hands. I am not aware of cuts or wound or his HIV status. Am I at risk of HIV? We did not indulge in ORAL/ANAL SEX. He was completely clothed.To which you said, I am safe. But i was so scared that I took tests at 7 weeks (50 days), 1. HbsAg(Screening) serum by CMIA - NON-REACTIVE (Reading 0.01) & 2. HIV-DUO (serum) by CMIA (IVth Generation)- NON REACTIVE (Reading 0.13). AM I COMPLETELY SAFE NOW? STILL NERVOUS. Now I have a mouth ulcer from last 2 days.

ANSWER: Non-reactive means your immune antibodies haven't built a reaction against any virus or bacteria they were testing for, so what do you think? I think you gave yourself the ulcer just worrying to much!


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QUESTION: Thank you John. It is so kind of you. Am I safe ??? Do you mean my mouth ulcer is not an idication of HIV. Honestly I DID NOT INDULGE IN ORAL OR ANAL SEX. I did not touch his genitals. He used only his hands to massage my penis. He was fully clothed during the entire session.

I am really sorry for bothering you again and again but i can not remove this episode from my mind?

For the last time AM I SAFE ?

I've told you now not once, not twice, but this is the third time that I've said you have nothing, zero, zip, zilch, nada to worry about. You're making yourself overload with the anxiety symptoms, in which case I would strongly recommend that you pursue mental health treatment with a licensed counselor, therapist, or psychologist/psychiatrist. Because I'm American I cant comment on what the mental health capacity of India is like, but I think you could use a form of resolution for your phobia. Wishing you well.


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Educated and certified in STI information, HIV and AIDS, and trained in comprehensive sex education for teens and young adults. Providing counseling in sexuality, sexual interests, and sexual orientations, pregnancy prevention, safer sex initiatives, and teaching health education seminars to adults ages 18-65 for the past 3 years. Serve underserved clients in homeless shelters, workplace readiness programs, and detention centers. Three term AmeriCorps domestic service volunteer and Peace Corps nominee for Health Service to Lesotho and Rwanda. Providing services to the GLBTQIA populations of which I am a member.


3 years as a volunteer Emergency Medical Technician (Advanced) for 3 years and comprehensive sex educator for 3 years and parenting educator for 3 years. *North Carolina State Certified Emergency Medical Technician, #P083512 *Certified Health Education Specialist, #22589

*American Public Health Association *National Commission on Health Education Credentialing

American Public Health Association, Student Assembly, Quarterly Newsletter 2012-2014

*Doctor of Education (candidate), K-12 Teacher Leadership; Capella University *Master of Public Health, Social and Behavioral Sciences; Capella University *Master of Education, Curriculum and Instruction; Concordia University-Portland *Bachelor of Arts, Psychology and English; East Carolina University

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Graduated with Distinction from Capella University AllExperts, Top Experts of 2014 (One and Multiple Categories)

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*Over 180 clients, lasting 30 sessions, in 5 locations during Florida service. *Over 150 clients, lasting 18 sessions, in 2 locations during South Carolina service.

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