Sexually Transmitted Diseases/Std/Sti Herpes


Hello my question is in regards to std/sti infection. About a week ago I was with a woman I licked and sucked her breast. I also allowed her to give me a hand job. She removed my penis with her bare hands at which point I had her put on a glove. I've recently heard a rumor that she may have herpes. I spoke with her and she confirmed that she does! I visited my primary doctor he insists that I have nothing to worry about because I did not kiss her, I did not have anal, oral, or vaginal sex with her. He says the disease isn't spread by any of the activities that I engaged in. Is he correct in his statement? I'm really worried and freaked out. Thank you for your help and second opinion.


The long and short answer is yes. Herpes, like every STI except for HPV, is spread by fluid contact and that wasn't the case with your sexual experience. Even without the glove you had a greater chance of getting struck by lightning than getting herpes. Let me know if you have follow-up.  

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John Brice


Educated and certified in STI information, HIV and AIDS, and trained in comprehensive sex education for teens and young adults. Providing counseling in sexuality, sexual interests, and sexual orientations, pregnancy prevention, safer sex initiatives, and teaching health education seminars to adults ages 18-65 for the past 3 years. Serve underserved clients in homeless shelters, workplace readiness programs, and detention centers. Three term AmeriCorps domestic service volunteer and Peace Corps nominee for Health Service to Lesotho and Rwanda. Providing services to the GLBTQIA populations of which I am a member.


3 years as a volunteer Emergency Medical Technician (Advanced) for 3 years and comprehensive sex educator for 3 years and parenting educator for 3 years. *North Carolina State Certified Emergency Medical Technician, #P083512 *Certified Health Education Specialist, #22589

*American Public Health Association *National Commission on Health Education Credentialing

American Public Health Association, Student Assembly, Quarterly Newsletter 2012-2014

*Doctor of Education (candidate), K-12 Teacher Leadership; Capella University *Master of Public Health, Social and Behavioral Sciences; Capella University *Master of Education, Curriculum and Instruction; Concordia University-Portland *Bachelor of Arts, Psychology and English; East Carolina University

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Graduated with Distinction from Capella University AllExperts, Top Experts of 2014 (One and Multiple Categories)

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*Over 180 clients, lasting 30 sessions, in 5 locations during Florida service. *Over 150 clients, lasting 18 sessions, in 2 locations during South Carolina service.

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