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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Negative people and their tactics | 1/28/2012 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I have a question regarding certain individuals that are just out to do harm. I'm a big follower of ... A: you have asked an important question here, especially in regards to the rising tides of 'pop-culture ... | ||
| Will discussing my abortion with my ex offer me closure? | 1/24/2012 | Jacky Tustain |
| Q: I'm having difficulty moving on from my last relationship. I would like advice on how to have an ... A: This is a very complex emotional situation you find yourself in. The abortion cannot be undone, and ... | ||
| I Want My Husband To Piss On Me | 12/15/2011 | David Dickeson, A.S. |
| Q: Me and my husband have been married for quite a while now and we have a very healthy sex life. ... A: The great thing about fantasies is we can imagine anything. Even impossible things like flying ... | ||
| I Want My Husband To Piss On Me | 12/15/2011 | Kerry D Sim |
| Q: Me and my husband have been married for quite a while now and we have a very healthy sex life. ... A: Truthfully, I do think getting pissed on is weird. But that's just my opinion and it ain't a factor ... | ||
| I Want My Husband To Piss On Me | 12/15/2011 | Leslie Truex |
| Q: Me and my husband have been married for quite a while now and we have a very healthy sex life. ... A: The best way to get something you want is to ask. Will your husband think it's weird? Maybe, but ... | ||
| follow up - misfocus crise | 12/11/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: regarding to our conversation , you recommended to me to do mantra exercise but unfortunately , I ... A: when asking advice you shouldn't apologize my friend, that's what we're here for. Don't worry about ... | ||
| misfocus crise | 11/25/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I m confront a bad problem on my life , I owe multiple talents,interests on something , my qualified ... A: I appreciate it. It still feels to me as if A) You don't really know what you want to do (which is ... | ||
| misfocus crise | 11/22/2011 | David Dickeson, A.S. |
| Q: I m confront a bad problem on my life , I owe multiple talents,interests on something , my qualified ... A: There are two kinds of movement in our world. People who move around like turtles; slow and precise ... | ||
| misfocus crise | 11/22/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I m confront a bad problem on my life , I owe multiple talents,interests on something , my qualified ... A: it is my pleasure to help you to gain some clarity on your life path. Based upon what you've said ... | ||
| misfocus crise | 11/22/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: I m confront a bad problem on my life , I owe multiple talents,interests on something , my qualified ... A: Ahmed, You don't give me a lot of facts to go on. You may have ADD/ADHD (Attention Deficit ... | ||
| misfocus crise | 11/22/2011 | Leslie Truex |
| Q: I m confront a bad problem on my life , I owe multiple talents,interests on something , my qualified ... A: Many people, myself included, like to do many things and therefore can get easily overwhelmed. While ... | ||
| Giving Exciting Blowjobs | 11/18/2011 | Leslie Truex |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for about a year now and our sex life is so boring! My husband ... A: To be honest, I don't believe changing your technique is going to do anything to solve your problem. ... | ||
| Giving Exciting Blowjobs | 11/18/2011 | David Dickeson, A.S. |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for about a year now and our sex life is so boring! My husband ... A: What you are experiencing is aging. Your metabolism is gradually slowing down. Happens to everyone. ... | ||
| An essential question | 11/18/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: I have believed in this sentence subconsciously for a long time: If you give up yourself and put ... A: Ferdinand, You certainly have clearly expressed the problems with trying to win friends and love by ... | ||
| I want to elope but my girlfriend dont want too | 11/14/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: My gf & I are hindus from tamilnadu & were in love for the past 7 years, Last year we got registered ... A: Jeeva, Your wife is very conflicted. She wants two opposing things. She is trying to serve two ... | ||
| I want to elope but my girlfriend dont want too | 11/13/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: My gf & I are hindus from tamilnadu & were in love for the past 7 years, Last year we got registered ... A: Jeeva, I understood that you were legally married. However that does not mean that she has ... | ||
| Goals | 11/13/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: I just need a new perspective on my situation. Ok, a couple months ago I committed myself to getting ... A: Quentin, There is a widely used saying in the self-development field: "What you think about, you ... | ||
| I want to elope but my girlfriend dont want too | 11/12/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: My gf & I are hindus from tamilnadu & were in love for the past 7 years, Last year we got registered ... A: Jeeva, South Pacific was the name of a hit musical play and film in the United States about fifty ... | ||
| An essential question | 11/11/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: I have believed in this sentence subconsciously for a long time: If you give up yourself and put ... A: Ferdinand, The first thing I would ask is the Dr. Phil"How is that working for you?". But you have ... | ||
| Unhappy alot of the time | 10/21/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: How do i get what I want? I want a person to live with who doesn't treat me like I'm an idiot. I ... A: Hey Laurie, I appreciate your openness and honesty, I really do. Many people are not ready to hear ... | ||
| my career | 10/18/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: I’m a 23 year old software engineer from India. When it comes to my career I’ve a very sad story. I ... A: I am happy to help you with this my friend. First, you are very fortunate in life to realize one of ... | ||
| my career | 10/18/2011 | Leslie Truex |
| Q: I’m a 23 year old software engineer from India. When it comes to my career I’ve a very sad story. I ... A: I wouldn't quit your job until you have another plan in place that is ready to implement. Second, if ... | ||
| Unhappy alot of the time | 10/16/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: How do i get what I want? I want a person to live with who doesn't treat me like I'm an idiot. I ... A: I'm very happy to help you with this, you are not alone here. In essence, you are asking one of the ... | ||
| Husband Wants to Retire | 9/23/2011 | Kerry D Sim |
| Q: My husband just turned 55 and says he's going to retire at the end of this year. He simply doesn't ... A: My short answer to this kind of question is always: "Tell the truth." If you communicate calmly and ... | ||
| dating | 9/19/2011 | Leslie Truex |
| Q: I have been doing on line dating through Lavalife and POF(Plenty of Fish). i get plenty of men on ... A: I would think men would be open to talking on the phone first. They have the same concerns as you ... | ||
| Finding myself | 9/12/2011 | Leslie Truex |
| Q: I have had a marrage and now a long term relationship fail. My ex and I had plans for a home, farm ... A: I can't tell you what to do, as that needs to come from you. I can tell you that you can't give up ... | ||
| Graphic Design as a future career | 9/4/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: I'm really troubled on this. I want to work in the Graphic Design industry, but I am not sure if i ... A: Adrian, When I said I worked with and knew a very successful graphics designer, I should have ... | ||
| Graphic Design as a future career | 9/4/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: I'm really troubled on this. I want to work in the Graphic Design industry, but I am not sure if i ... A: Adrian, My first question is who told you that you could not make a good living as a graphic ... | ||
| uneasy | 9/1/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: how to make myself really want to do something? ... A: BJ, I have been out of town for the past three days - which is why I have not responded earlier. ... | ||
| personal issues | 9/1/2011 | David Dickeson, A.S. |
| Q: how to make myself really want to do something? ... A: I am probably over-self-motivated to where I make others crazy! But every night, I go to bed, the ... | ||
| engagement pressure | 8/18/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: it sounds like letting go right now could be the best answer for you, based upon what you've told ... | ||
| engagement pressure | 8/18/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: it looks like you've emailed me someone elses answer to your question...? From what I can tell they ... | ||
| engagement pressure | 8/17/2011 | David Dickeson, A.S. |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: Wow. You wrote the longest question I have ever received. And I read it very carefully, going over ... | ||
| engagement pressure | 8/17/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: I am happy to help you here. The first thing I would like to say is that I like how you are setting ... | ||
| Goals | 8/10/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: I just need a new perspective on my situation. Ok, a couple months ago I committed myself to getting ... A: Quentin, I'm sorry I misunderstood your question. I believe that you always need to be working ... | ||
| Goals | 8/9/2011 | John Chancellor |
| Q: I just need a new perspective on my situation. Ok, a couple months ago I committed myself to getting ... A: Quentin, First let me say congratulations on taking action and getting a job. That is really ... | ||
| Moving Where Spouse Doesn't Want To Move | 7/22/2011 | David Dickeson, A.S. |
| Q: Dickeson. I live in the bay area, which is where I was born and raised. I'm almost 40 and for a ... A: I use to live 1 mile from the beach. Now I live 11 miles from the beach; due to hurricanes. My wife ... | ||
| unplanned pregnancy | 7/7/2011 | David Dickeson, A.S. |
| Q: I am 30 years old and have been dating/living with my finacee for the past 3 years. We found out in ... A: You are in the middle of a very difficult situation. I am sorry for you for that. I apologize, but ... | ||
| Need Guidance | 6/28/2011 | David Dickeson, A.S. |
| Q: am rocky 23 yrs. Old completed my graduation from commerce and I have also completed my Diploma in ... A: A team leader is like the Captain of a ship. The Captain decides which direction (policy) the ship ... | ||
| Love/Marriage | 6/19/2011 | Christopher Pinckley, cpt |
| Q: Iam in love with a guy ,we both love eachother,i know him from past more than a year,he is my ... A: It seems like I am getting a lot of questions and situations very similar to yours here on ... | ||
How to Get What You Want in Life
Answers by Expert:
John Chancellor
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
How to set and achieve goals, how to find your major purpose in life and the power of focused action. Why you need an emotional attachment to give you the drive necessary to achieve goals.
Experience
Coach and trainer. Author Lessons In Life. www.teachthesoul.com
Education/Credentials
Business degree, certified coach
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