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Hello!
Thank you so much for taking the time to get back to this!
My question is-- how can I get more well known in my youth group. I don't want or need to be the most well known person
there but I would love to be more well known and well liked. I guess I just have a hard time getting out there and getting
out of my box.
Thank you so much!
Hello Tyashii :)
I would love to help you with this issue if I am able to do so.
First let me ask you, what do you think is holding you back? And, holding you back from what? Do you fear approaching people? Do you fear interacting with people? Are you fearful of confrontation? Do you feel shy or awkward? Where do you feel like you have fear around this issue? What I'm saying is that if there is something that you want, but you have not achieved it, there is generally some sort of fear holding you back.
I don't really know who you are and what you enjoy doing in life, if I did I would maybe be able to give you some more feedback based upon the type of person that you are. You see, some people are more sociable and interactive, and some people are more quiet and socially independent.
What do you want people to like about you? Is there a specific person that is very popular in your group that you want to be more like? You see, the reason I ask some of these questions is because I want to make sure you are also allowing yourself to be yourself. Sometimes we feel like we need to be like other people to be accepted or to be normal. The fact is that most people have some fears.
Tyashii, can you tell me where you think the fear is and why you want people to like you more? If you can answer these questions then we may be able to get to the root of the matter and affect some sort of change.
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