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How to Get What You Want in Life/Questions Answered by Expert Christopher Pinckley, cpt
| Subject | Date Asked |
| Negative people and their tactics | 1/28/2012 |
| Q: I have a question regarding certain individuals that are just out to do harm. I'm a big follower of ... A: you have asked an important question here, especially in regards to the rising tides of 'pop-culture ... | |
| follow up - misfocus crise | 12/11/2011 |
| Q: regarding to our conversation , you recommended to me to do mantra exercise but unfortunately , I ... A: when asking advice you shouldn't apologize my friend, that's what we're here for. Don't worry about ... | |
| misfocus crise | 11/25/2011 |
| Q: I m confront a bad problem on my life , I owe multiple talents,interests on something , my qualified ... A: I appreciate it. It still feels to me as if A) You don't really know what you want to do (which is ... | |
| misfocus crise | 11/22/2011 |
| Q: I m confront a bad problem on my life , I owe multiple talents,interests on something , my qualified ... A: it is my pleasure to help you to gain some clarity on your life path. Based upon what you've said ... | |
| Unhappy alot of the time | 10/21/2011 |
| Q: How do i get what I want? I want a person to live with who doesn't treat me like I'm an idiot. I ... A: Hey Laurie, I appreciate your openness and honesty, I really do. Many people are not ready to hear ... | |
| my career | 10/18/2011 |
| Q: I’m a 23 year old software engineer from India. When it comes to my career I’ve a very sad story. I ... A: I am happy to help you with this my friend. First, you are very fortunate in life to realize one of ... | |
| Unhappy alot of the time | 10/16/2011 |
| Q: How do i get what I want? I want a person to live with who doesn't treat me like I'm an idiot. I ... A: I'm very happy to help you with this, you are not alone here. In essence, you are asking one of the ... | |
| engagement pressure | 8/18/2011 |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: it sounds like letting go right now could be the best answer for you, based upon what you've told ... | |
| engagement pressure | 8/18/2011 |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: it looks like you've emailed me someone elses answer to your question...? From what I can tell they ... | |
| engagement pressure | 8/17/2011 |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: I am happy to help you here. The first thing I would like to say is that I like how you are setting ... | |
| Love/Marriage | 6/19/2011 |
| Q: Iam in love with a guy ,we both love eachother,i know him from past more than a year,he is my ... A: It seems like I am getting a lot of questions and situations very similar to yours here on ... | |
| improve my self | 5/25/2011 |
| Q: my name is jyoti. my problem is my weight also my look my weight is 80 kg still since 3 years n d ... A: Ok Jyoti, I am happy to help you now :) So, the first thing to understand is that many people do ... | |
| The pain underneath my pain | 5/24/2011 |
| Q: LONG message to follow) I think you will have forgotten me by now but I will never forget the ... A: yes I remember you ;) And no it's not because I feel you are dramatic, it's just because I remember ... | |
| Inter religion relationship problem | 4/30/2011 |
| Q: Just like every Indian love story mine to has the same problem, religion.I am Muslim guy, i met her ... A: Mohammed, my brother, hello :) You are correct my friend, we are all one people under one God. ... | |
| emotional intimacy/sexual happiness/self expansion | 2/3/2011 |
| Q: I am highly educated in the worldly sense.however i dont have the desire to give back. i have a ... A: I am happy to offer some reflection and feedback here :) The first thing of notice to me is that I ... | |
| Need that extra push in life | 9/28/2010 |
| Q: I am 35 year old man with a BS in education. I am looking for a full time career. At this point I ... A: in order to be of assistance to you I really need to know a little more about you. For instance, ... | |
| Positive Changes | 9/22/2010 |
| Q: Perhaps you can provide me with some input. I have led a rather frustrating life in which a great ... A: first let me apologize for taking a little extra time to get back to you, usually I'm more ... | |
| career, purpose, goals | 5/19/2010 |
| Q: I've been an employee of an insurance company for several years now and have been satisfied for the ... A: Hey Roger, it's my pleasure to help if I am able to do so :) My feeling is that you are on the ... | |
| career, purpose, goals | 5/19/2010 |
| Q: I've been an employee of an insurance company for several years now and have been satisfied for the ... A: I am happy to help, although I have to say that 'career assessment' is not necessarily my expertise. ... | |
| No vision? | 5/1/2010 |
| Q: Me again (you know the old me and my husband moving house saga..different topic this time)! I keep ... A: first let me say that you are fully welcome to contact me any time! :) So, I have a few things to ... | |
| Disappointed | 4/1/2010 |
| Q: I have been applying for jobs since a year, Didnt get any response from anybody. I am feeling really ... A: I would love to help you :) First, you say that you have a problem that you can't write about here. ... | |
| I bought your book | 3/28/2010 |
| Q: I expect you've had many many emails since I contacted you a while ago about my problem with where I ... A: :) Ok, so I get the feeling that two things are happening here, one that you are aware of and one ... | |
| confusion | 3/7/2010 |
| Q: I m confuse between motivation ( motives ) and ( values ) to choose my career for instance , I m ... A: let me see if I am able to help you figure out how to choose the right career path for yourself :) ... | |
| keeping up the positive changes | 3/2/2010 |
| Q: I've been meditating, exercising and doing yoga with some positive results, since you replied to my ... A: First let me say congratulations! I'm very proud of you, really I am. So many people say that they ... | |
| improving quality of life | 2/14/2010 |
| Q: How can I change my life for the better? I'm a 36 year old single mum of two boys, 8 and 11. Their ... A: let me first say congratulations on getting Past Life Regression therapy, it could be extremely ... | |
| deadlocked | 1/27/2010 |
| Q: I realise it's a long one...even so I've had to condense what I want to say to fit it in. I am 35 ... A: sounds as if you certainly have a lot going on, let me see if I can at least help you to simplify ... | |
| How did I create this? | 1/23/2010 |
| Q: I am familiar with the laws of attraction and how we create our reality, but I am genuinely stymied ... A: Yes, without being there to guide you through the process, it's a bit tough to just ask someone to ... | |
| How did I create this? | 1/11/2010 |
| Q: I am familiar with the laws of attraction and how we create our reality, but I am genuinely stymied ... A: well, this is quite the unique(and sounds like extremely challenging) situation that we've got going ... | |
| Re-starting | 12/21/2009 |
| Q: I was living abroad for 13 years, i am back in the uk, with my 11 year old daughter. I don't know ... A: let's get you back on track, shall we? :) The place to start is with what feels good to you right ... | |
| cant decide | 12/1/2009 |
| Q: I am 20, and I met a 27 year old man a year ago during a vacation, after which we both returned to ... A: ) Here is my recommendation for you, an emotional release exercise. Exercise: Sit quietly, by ... | |
| cant decide | 12/1/2009 |
| Q: I am 20, and I met a 27 year old man a year ago during a vacation, after which we both returned to ... A: I would love to be of assistance to you if I am able :) I have many things to say about this ... | |
| Help | 10/21/2009 |
| Q: My question is-- how can I get more well known in my youth group. I don't want or need to be the ... A: ) I would love to help you with this issue if I am able to do so. First let me ask you, what do ... | |
| still confuse | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: for long time I m trying to do permulation and combination between my interests - skills and what I ... A: it seems that you are suffering as many people are during this time period. Everyone is trying to ... | |
| self control | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: I am overweight, for starters, and I would like to lose weight, but get over whelmed and some times ... A: Getting back on track Hello Jacob, let's see if we can get things back on track for you. First ... | |
| bullies and fair weather friends | 7/8/2009 |
| Q: I am having a very serious problem in my life with bullies and fair weather friends. It's ... A: ) I have many thoughts on this and am happy to offer you some reflection if I am able. A number of ... | |
| Caring for Self | 6/28/2009 |
| Q: If I am doing a task for someone else, I put my whole self into it and usually end up with a ... A: I would love to help if I can :) A very good friend of mine, Brad Yates, taught me this lesson: ... | |
| Losing Hope because of a felony | 6/16/2009 |
| Q: I am 24 years old and I never was known as someone to go and get in trouble..after a long struggle ... A: there is always a second chance for anyone, any time, anywhere, in any situation. I am going to ... | |
| Food Addiction | 6/10/2009 |
| Q: I have been over-weight since age 10. I have lost and re-gained weight more times than I can ... A: I would love to help you with this :) As an alternative health professional, for many many years, ... | |
| wanting something more out of love life | 5/23/2009 |
| Q: my bf of 3 years has cheated on me and lied many times and said things about me to other people how ... A: I would like to help you with this issue if I am able to :) So, obviously you know that your bf has ... | |
| needing motivation | 5/8/2009 |
| Q: I need help. I have zero motivation. And what makes it worse is I know what I need to do. I ... A: Hey Peter, it will be my pleaure to see if I can help here :) Money. Wow, what an entrenched, ... | |
| Perspective on Money | 5/7/2009 |
| Q: My life has flipped upside down in the last two years. Divorce, foreclosure, bankruptcy (on the bad ... A: I would be glad to offer you some reflection here :) First thing, I think it's good to cut back on ... | |
| Self Sabotage | 4/7/2009 |
| Q: I have a bizarre ability to sabotage anything that is going well in my life. If I have a specific ... A: ) The first best thing here Ian is that you are in realization and recognition of the fact that you ... | |
| Love | 3/11/2009 |
| Q: The question I m about to ask does not involve me but my sister. She is now 32 and the only ... A: I would love to help you and your sister if I can. In my opinion, one should never compromise in ... | |
| Maxed out of positivity | 2/25/2009 |
| Q: My question is this - I relocated to another country about a year ago with my boyfriend. I'm a ... A: ) I got an idea as I was reading this second email that you sent me. It all makes a lot of sense ... | |
| Maxed out of positivity | 2/23/2009 |
| Q: My question is this - I relocated to another country about a year ago with my boyfriend. I'm a ... A: a bit of a complicated situation that your in, no? I will gladly offer some insight if I am able :) ... | |
| no path in life | 2/16/2009 |
| Q: my name is John. I am 47 and basically feel like my life is over and has been over for quite some ... A: ) My pleasure to provide a little insight and reflection here. First thing is this, "It's never ... | |
| CONFUSED!!! | 2/3/2009 |
| Q: Before leaving high school, I felt I figured out what I was going to do and how I was going to go ... A: Ok Helen, so I'm hearing you loud and clear :) My feelings on this are basically the same. I ... | |
| CONFUSED!!! | 2/2/2009 |
| Q: Before leaving high school, I felt I figured out what I was going to do and how I was going to go ... A: I would love to offer you insight and reflection if I am able :) The first thing that stands out to ... | |
| I'm bitter although I know I should be happy | 1/25/2009 |
| Q: my name is Paola an I'm 19 years old. Recently I've accepted that I have been living my life in a ... A: it is my pleasure to be of assistance if I can :) My first feeling here is that you are a bit young ... | |
| help | 1/16/2009 |
| Q: I logged onto 'how do you really know you're really in love.'Well this rang a bell for me as I ... A: so I extrapolate from your follow up question that you, yourself, are fearful of leaving him. If ... | |
| help | 1/16/2009 |
| Q: I logged onto 'how do you really know you're really in love.'Well this rang a bell for me as I ... A: it is my pleasure to offer you assistance if I can :) There are many facets to this situation that ... | |
| Caring about what others think | 1/14/2009 |
| Q: I find myself always worrying about how I'm being perceived by others.Most family members feel that ... A: it is always my pleasure to offer reflection and feedback :) To recognize that you are vulnerable ... | |
| problem accompanied | 12/22/2008 |
| Q: I m suffering from a problem accompanying me from long time till this moment my problem simply is ... A: I will answer your question as best I can :) It seems to me that your career path is not really the ... | |
| My Perfect Life Decided By My Parents | 12/17/2008 |
| Q: It's 10:35 right now and I'm stressing about a Chemistry final i have tomorrow. Studying for exams ... A: ) It is always my pleasure to offer reflection, feedback, and/or validate the true feelings you may ... | |
| Relationship drama | 12/4/2008 |
| Q: :) I know this is long but this issue is complex and it wouldn’t be realistic if I removed essential ... A: Your ability to see the humor in your situation is admirable. It takes great strength to be able to ... | |
| This is a marriage question. | 11/29/2008 |
| Q: I am pretty sure that I love my husband,more than anything.But why is something underestimating that ... A: It seems like I have answered similar questions from you before...? I can only offer you my opinion ... | |
| INQUIRY | 11/22/2008 |
| Q: I m awe some creative talents need to find a niche or starting point to build oen my career I hope ... A: I'm sorry that I am unable to actually assist you in job hunting. However, I can suggest to you ... | |
| Marriage help! | 11/15/2008 |
| Q: I was really looking for some direction and advice. My husband and I have been married 3 years ... A: it is always my pleasure to provide reflection :) There is always something that we can do, but we ... | |
| crise | 10/19/2008 |
| Q: hope you wide your chest for reading my crises , I m someone who live in imaginations & ... A: it seems to me as if there are a couple of things happening here. The first thing we should discuss ... | |
How to Get What You Want in Life
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Christopher Pinckley, cpt
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Expertise
I am a Spiritual Consultant. In essence, I will help you to unlock your power and realize your highest aspirations for yourself. Part of what I do is to help you integrate any fragmented aspects of your psyche that may be acting as inner sabotage mechanisms. Often times, it's not that we don't know what we want, it's that we don't really think that we can have it or are worthy of having it. I personally think that it's tragic to go through your life, not understanding how you may be creating the same scenario over and over again. The true path to power is empowerment, which is power from within. In order to actualize yourself, you may need to unearth and release your inner blockages to the life that you deserve. If you have questions about healing emotional wounds, limiting beliefs, relational problems, or questions about how to create what you want-then please feel free to let me know.
Experience
Christopher A. Pinckley is the author of the spiritual self-help book Reality Creation 101 rated ‘5 Stars’ by Amazon Top 10 Reviewers. He is also the founder of the blog HolisticFitness4U (www.holisticfitness4u.wordpress.com) as well as the founder of the breakthrough coaching program Reality Creation Coaching (RCC). Christopher’s view is that we are here to have fun, be creative, and fulfill our destiny. To find out more about his breakthrough coaching program and schedule your first free 20 minute session please email RC101Coaching@gmail.com.
Organizations
www.realitycreation101.com
www.holisticfitness4u.com
www.fitnowradio.com
www.bodybeyondbelief.com
www.heartboard.com
www.sourceofgoodstuff.com
Publications
www.amazon.com
www.realitycreation101.com
www.sedonajournal.com
www.4realmagazine.com
www.selfempowermagazine.com
www.realitycreation101.com
www.heartboard.com
www.yourspiritualrevolution.org
Education/Credentials
I am entirely self taught and learned everything from living on the streets, reading books, and then applying it in my own life. This is the power of 'me' in that if you do not have a college degree, a professional resume, a list of contacts, a safety net, or family support then do not worry, neither did I!
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