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How to Get What You Want in Life/Questions Answered by Expert David Dickeson, A.S.
| Subject | Date Asked |
| I Want My Husband To Piss On Me | 12/15/2011 |
| Q: Me and my husband have been married for quite a while now and we have a very healthy sex life. ... A: The great thing about fantasies is we can imagine anything. Even impossible things like flying ... | |
| misfocus crise | 11/22/2011 |
| Q: I m confront a bad problem on my life , I owe multiple talents,interests on something , my qualified ... A: There are two kinds of movement in our world. People who move around like turtles; slow and precise ... | |
| Giving Exciting Blowjobs | 11/18/2011 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for about a year now and our sex life is so boring! My husband ... A: What you are experiencing is aging. Your metabolism is gradually slowing down. Happens to everyone. ... | |
| personal issues | 9/1/2011 |
| Q: how to make myself really want to do something? ... A: I am probably over-self-motivated to where I make others crazy! But every night, I go to bed, the ... | |
| engagement pressure | 8/17/2011 |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: Wow. You wrote the longest question I have ever received. And I read it very carefully, going over ... | |
| Moving Where Spouse Doesn't Want To Move | 7/22/2011 |
| Q: Dickeson. I live in the bay area, which is where I was born and raised. I'm almost 40 and for a ... A: I use to live 1 mile from the beach. Now I live 11 miles from the beach; due to hurricanes. My wife ... | |
| unplanned pregnancy | 7/7/2011 |
| Q: I am 30 years old and have been dating/living with my finacee for the past 3 years. We found out in ... A: You are in the middle of a very difficult situation. I am sorry for you for that. I apologize, but ... | |
| Need Guidance | 6/28/2011 |
| Q: am rocky 23 yrs. Old completed my graduation from commerce and I have also completed my Diploma in ... A: A team leader is like the Captain of a ship. The Captain decides which direction (policy) the ship ... | |
| major and career | 5/3/2011 |
| Q: I go to a community college right now and have just chosen the major of Psychology. I am planning to ... A: Josh. OH GOD! Why is it when any of us want to do something (for example; Psychology!) EVERYONE ... | |
| job search | 3/21/2011 |
| Q: I am an MIBA holder with 12 years experience in MNC (Nokia-Siemens-Networks). I am now operation ... A: There are employment agencies on the internet that specialize in locating qualified applicants with ... | |
| detail oriented and team player | 3/16/2011 |
| Q: I was wondering how can I be more detailed oriented when doing a task? and also be a effective team ... A: Write down what you want. In as much detail as possible. The "how" to make yourself an effective ... | |
| etc | 3/16/2011 |
| Q: I was wondering how can I be a effective problem solver? Like solving difficult math problems? A: Start any situation by starting small. There are many books and internet programs on math formulas. ... | |
| height | 2/27/2011 |
| Q: I need some help. I want to be 5'9", but I am only 5'4". It seems my height never. What can I do ... A: Not every one is blessed with good height. Those of us who exercise, stretching, weightlifting, and ... | |
| emotional intimacy/sexual happiness/self expansion | 2/3/2011 |
| Q: I am highly educated in the worldly sense.however i dont have the desire to give back. i have a ... A: Did you know that 99% of the people on this planet do not have any idea as to what they want in ... | |
| lost | 1/20/2011 |
| Q: Hey,After 3 years in the dental field, I finally understood the feeling that I had every and each ... A: I can recommend two things for you. Both will work. 1. Write down the type of job you want. Not job ... | |
| RELATIONSHIP | 11/9/2010 |
| Q: My name is Yusra. I am an 19 years Muslim girl but I am in love with a 26 years Muslim man he is a ... A: Finding a good man in today's world is very difficult. You are very lucky to find such a man to ... | |
| Need that extra push in life | 10/5/2010 |
| Q: I am 35 year old man with a BS in education. I am looking for a full time career. At this point I ... A: Glad I could help. Just remember; when writing your list, try not to make your goals so big that you ... | |
| Need that extra push in life | 9/28/2010 |
| Q: I am 35 year old man with a BS in education. I am looking for a full time career. At this point I ... A: First, write down the working environment you want to work in. Not a title or a job - write down ... | |
| Architecture or Medicine | 5/9/2010 |
| Q: I just got recently accepted to one of the best architecture schools in Canada. I was very happy ... A: When I was going to graduate from high school, I wanted to be a Paleontologist. I visualized myself ... | |
| inconspicuous and unrecognized | 4/22/2010 |
| Q: I do not want to write an essay, so I will more specific and short to explain my issue. I am 33 old ... A: Successful people have one factor in common; they are very focused in their lives. This gives them ... | |
| Purpose | 3/25/2010 |
| Q: I am a junior in high school right now. Not to brag, but I am a brilliant student. I have set a goal ... A: Brilliant student? If you are smart, then acknowledge it. The world needs smart people to find ... | |
| confusion | 3/7/2010 |
| Q: I m confuse between motivation ( motives ) and ( values ) to choose my career for instance , I m ... A: motivation is where you work toward achieving your goals in life. If you are not motivated, others ... | |
| age 21, 40,000 dollars in debt and don't know my passion | 1/7/2010 |
| Q: So recently I turned 21 and I'm going to be finishing my Junior year in college soon. I'm trying my ... A: At age 13, I wrote down what I wanted to do with my adult life. Interestingly I did not have any ... | |
| career selection | 12/15/2009 |
| Q: i am an Msc biotech graduate.. but never had experience in biotech field.. 4 years experience in ... A: Do this: sign up with every employment agency in your city. Emphasize that you are seeking part time ... | |
| fresh graduate changes career path | 11/22/2009 |
| Q: "i'm a fresh graduate with a degree of architecture and would like to work as a computer graphic ... A: Employers today are now hiring people through temp employment agencies. The days of resumes and ... | |
| marriage | 11/21/2009 |
| Q: i have a question on my new marriage. i just married a girl that has changed my life. she is ... A: Both you and your wife are in an emotional situation that the two of you will not be able to solve ... | |
| Lack of Motivation to Study | 11/20/2009 |
| Q: I am studying in university now and I am suffering from lack of motivation to study. But this was ... A: You need to understand shat happens to all of us; body metabolism. When we reach the age of 18-21, ... | |
| Help need | 11/19/2009 |
| Q: David Dickeson, A.S. I am 41 years old.I somewhat stayed in one carrier which I felt most ... A: Since the world economy is presently in shambles, it is a good idea to keep your present employment ... | |
| lost | 11/14/2009 |
| Q: I am lost. Some days its good but some day its just bad. It's a lot more bad than good. Recently, ... A: Go to sites like Craig's List. Look for rooms for rent. You need a place of your own. Many people ... | |
| Phenomena | 11/8/2009 |
| Q: I want to know the this phenomena interpretation and reason where it is ( joying of thinking , ... A: What you are feeling is exercise. When we think about something, read, or talk about something, ... | |
| Help.. | 10/21/2009 |
| Q: My question is-- how can I get more well known in my youth group. I don't want or need to be the ... A: I know what you are talking about. I joined various clubs and groups over the years, but they just ... | |
| Singing. | 9/30/2009 |
| Q: I am 14 and I have always wanted to get into singing for a career--I have asked other experts about ... A: First, I would say that you should never have others influence you in any way NOT to sing for a ... | |
| unrealistic dreams | 9/25/2009 |
| Q: that is a very kind thing to do. Well my question probobly is not unusual. What about when your ... A: Arnold Schwarznegger came to the United States, with no money and not speaking even one word of ... | |
| still confuse - continue | 9/13/2009 |
| Q: I have did a self questionnaire to crystalize what I want , I like to share me the answer , then ... A: When selecting a house and/or car, you should pick a home that is of reasonable cost and a home that ... | |
| still confuse | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: for long time I m trying to do permulation and combination between my interests - skills and what I ... A: Your displine should specifically be engineering. First, a college degree will open doors for a wide ... | |
| Achieving what I want | 6/17/2009 |
| Q: I am married with 3 small children (ages 1, 2, and 3) and I feel like I have gone through life doing ... A: In life, achievements come quickly, slowly, and many take a long time to achieve. For now, a stable ... | |
| Carrier | 6/5/2009 |
| Q: 6%.can i get admission in any aeronaticle college in india. A: All schools, around the world, have their own requirements for admission into the respective ... | |
| confusion | 4/1/2009 |
| Q: there is something confuse me where it is is the person must choose the industry he want to work ... A: Plan the job you want. Not the employer or the career. I planned my job I wanted at age 13. I ... | |
| This is a marriage question. | 11/29/2008 |
| Q: No,I'm sorry to bother you again but you have not answered this question and if you have please tell ... A: Is the love you feel for him passionate?, which is a strong physical love, or compassionate?, which ... | |
| same problem | 11/22/2008 |
| Q: I found in your question archive an case identical with mine but I just high light on a paragraph ... A: The world has changed. Before, people mailed resumes, then faxed resumes, then e-mailed resumes, ... | |
| INQUIRY | 11/22/2008 |
| Q: I m awe some creative talents need to find a niche or starting point to build oen my career I hope ... A: Headhunter agencies are looking for people in management positions. Your best choice would be to ... | |
| Marriage help! | 11/15/2008 |
| Q: I was really looking for some direction and advice. My husband and I have been married 3 years ... A: I first have to explain the difference between men, and women. For thousands of years people walked ... | |
| crise | 10/19/2008 |
| Q: hope you wide your chest for reading my crises , I m someone who live in imaginations & ... A: Your problem is focus. You have a very wide focus, so ALL stimuli are being processed by your brain. ... | |
| question ! | 9/7/2008 |
| Q: I m directing some short movies as the following I record a video scenes then I put the suitable ... A: Movies today is 90% "behind-the-scenes," 10% acting. And with better and better graphics, after a ... | |
| your book | 9/6/2008 |
| Q: David, I've been reading you answers to here all experts, on both exercise and How to Get What You ... A: Yea, for years I would write down what I wanted, and then attach calendars to my goals, only to get ... | |
| Career satisfaction | 8/23/2008 |
| Q: Greetings, I would like your help in getting my dream of having a working holiday in the US. I am ... A: Go on the internet and look for employment agencies in the cities that you would like to work in. I ... | |
| Will he EVER be "ready" for marriage? | 7/10/2008 |
| Q: I have a serious dilema with my boyfriend of almost 2 1/2 years. I have been living with him for ... A: The LEGAL reasons for marriage is very long. But that is not your worry here! It is; why won't he ... | |
| HELP! | 6/6/2008 |
| Q: THNX please contact asap. A: First, good for you! MOST PEOPLE do not have a "clue" as to what their 'passion(s)' in life are. So ... | |
| engagement help | 5/28/2008 |
| Q: How do you know if a girl really loves you? I am engaged about to be married in 9 weeks and my ... A: A successful LONG-TERM marriage is possible when two people who are ALIKE, are married to each ... | |
| engagement help | 5/27/2008 |
| Q: How do you know if a girl really loves you? I am engaged about to be married in 9 weeks and my ... A: Let's get into the three types of women; 1. The controller. She will decide everything in your ... | |
| Pls advise me | 5/7/2008 |
| Q: I am lost and I dont know what to do. I wish you could shed some light for me. I'm 28 years old and ... A: The first answer to your question is your age; 28! Most people today will live to age 90, and many ... | |
| How to find balance and increase self-worth | 4/29/2008 |
| Q: Lately, I've been feeling a sense of self-worth that is lower than what I am comfortable with. The ... A: No job, or career, is worth having if you feel trapped and being short-changed, no matter what the ... | |
| ref | 4/27/2008 |
| Q: Good day, Lets say you are just starting out in business and trying to network with high profile men ... A: All people, based on their income and education, tend to "group" with others that look, talk, and ... | |
| I want privacy & peace of mind - stalking victim FOLLOW UP | 4/24/2008 |
| Q: I have another question. Could you elaborate on this issue of adrenolin and people burning up fast ... A: Adrenlin is the chemical we all produce when we are in a stressful situation. Psychologists call it ... | |
| I want privacy & peace of mind - stalking victim | 4/22/2008 |
| Q: I just want to have peace of mind. I am in the process of changing jobs and I am concerned about ... A: I am glad I can help. Even in Europe, employees have privacy guaranteed. The ONLY time it would be a ... | |
| I want privacy & peace of mind - stalking victim | 4/21/2008 |
| Q: I just want to have peace of mind. I am in the process of changing jobs and I am concerned about ... A: Employers, by federal law, are ONLY allowed to release the date the person was hired, and the date ... | |
| Ideal Job | 4/19/2008 |
| Q: I just want to find an ideal job and I am struggling with it. I have almost everything that I want ... A: A "Dear God" letter is a unique approach. If it worked before, then I recommend you write yet ... | |
| Ideal Job | 4/18/2008 |
| Q: I just want to find an ideal job and I am struggling with it. I have almost everything that I want ... A: The first step to finding the perfect job, is to write down, in detail, exactly what you want in a ... | |
| Motivation | 4/17/2008 |
| Q: My name is Patrick, and I'm 20 years old. I feel that I have a very good concept of what I want out ... A: Patrick The problem is your metabolism. When our metabolism is down (ALL of us), we just don't feel ... | |
| Should we stay or go ? | 4/14/2008 |
| Q: Firstly thanks for being a volunteer here. My wife and I (no kids), both live in Australia. We have ... A: I would MOVE! back to Europe. Why? 1. Society everywhere has taught us that MONEY is No. #1 in our ... | |
| change career | 3/25/2008 |
| Q: I m 23 years graduated from university from one year my problem too complicated , I acquired a ... A: Your mind is cluttered with so many different ideas and emotions because it is "crying out" for a ... | |
| lost & directionless | 3/21/2008 |
| Q: I am a 26 years old female. For the past few weeks I have been feeling general malaise & sickness ... A: The most important thing I am reading here is that you are suffering from depression. A physical by ... | |
| Would it be possible? | 3/17/2008 |
| Q: im still in high school and im interested in becoming a Pediatrician. i have always wanted to have ... A: My wife and I put our education, then jobs, finally careers, first, before having a child. The ... | |
| To Help or Not to help, that is the question. | 3/11/2008 |
| Q: I almost feel as if I am shaking a magic 8 ball when it comes to my life, and it always lands on ... A: There is nothing wrong with being a "giving" person. WHAT you are giving DOES matter. If you are ... | |
| Balance | 3/3/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and living together for over 1 1/2. He has a 5 ... A: First, realize your crazy life is the same as everyone else. We ALL wanted a faster, faster, more, ... | |
| Changing of status | 3/1/2008 |
| Q: and my husband did not yet file to change my status til now so my question is... does immigration ... A: My wife's parent are very controlling and very negative. I made it VERY CLEAR to BOTH of them, from ... | |
| Changing of status | 2/28/2008 |
| Q: and my husband did not yet file to change my status til now so my question is... does immigration ... A: I would look in the phone book, or on the internet, and schedule an appointment with your local ... | |
| about me | 2/26/2008 |
| Q: I am female 27 years old and unmarried. My parent’s decision was to get me married with my cousin. ... A: The first thing I would like to recommend that you do is to write down what you want in your life. ... | |
| Pls advise me | 2/17/2008 |
| Q: I am currently in a dilemma and I hope you can give me an advise or two. Here's my long story.. I'm ... A: Well, this is an interesting question! About 15 years ago I had a very similar situation at my ... | |
| please do reply | 2/14/2008 |
| Q: i am 21 years of age , my life is full of so many ups and downs and its been long since iv been ... A: Start by writing down what is going RIGHT with your life. 1. You are 21. Most people live until 85 ... | |
| advice? | 1/24/2008 |
| Q: I have never done this but just need some advice. I am almost 21 and have been in a serious ... A: I was personally moved by your very kind comments. Thank You for that. I wish you and your boyfriend ... | |
| Hi | 1/24/2008 |
| Q: I am 27 years old and still dont have any goal in life.I dont know what i want do in my life. I ... A: When I was a young man, I was waiting for my employment dream to come true. I worked to pay the ... | |
| Hi | 1/21/2008 |
| Q: I am 27 years old and still dont have any goal in life.I dont know what i want do in my life. I ... A: Specifically, YOU ARE BORED!! This is why you keep changing your career and goals in life. Change ... | |
| Completely Lost | 1/18/2008 |
| Q: Around 6 months ago, I came to a great big brick wall in my life. My job at the time, although ... A: You are on the right track with the temp work. Treat it from now on as your FULL TIME work. Take any ... | |
| I could use some modivation... | 1/15/2008 |
| Q: I am a 25 y/o man and I am still struggling to get my life going. I am about to move from a small ... A: Definitely, many businesses offer various forms of tuition reimbursement, then promotions, when you ... | |
| I could use some modivation... | 1/13/2008 |
| Q: I am a 25 y/o man and I am still struggling to get my life going. I am about to move from a small ... A: Let's break this down into specific questions and comments. 1. Age; 25. MOST people struggle at ... | |
| talent school | 1/13/2008 |
| Q: My son and wife,have been taking their daughter to a talent teaching school JOHN ROBERT POWERS, ... A: This is a really tough question. Which is perfect for me, because I like tough questions! Ok, here ... | |
| Serious problem with procrastination | 12/11/2007 |
| Q: ..I have a very serious problem with self-motivation and overcoming procrastination. I'm 19 years ... A: First, stop "beating up your soul." You are only 19. You will most likely live to 90 years, or ... | |
| need to ask | 12/4/2007 |
| Q: I m electronics & communication engineer (fresh graduate) , I detected that I too intrested in ... A: You have two choices. Ergonomics, of which is a very specialized and very limited career choice. ... | |
| requirement of career guidance | 11/26/2007 |
| Q: this is mona.i m 21. i m from an average indian family staying in india and my family consists of 4 ... A: A COLLEGE DEGREE will give you employment and career opportunities your entire life. You will find ... | |
| life | 11/18/2007 |
| Q: I can't seem write the lyrics or words I'd like. I don't wanna do anything sometimes. I read the ... A: The first step to success, is to know what you want. You want to sing and play music. You want to ... | |
| Confusion | 11/13/2007 |
| Q: I am Anil Sharma (43) from India. I am obsessed with my Vivid Imagination and non-stoppable ... A: You have a passion for arts and entertainment. Your parents passion in in real estate. That is great ... | |
| really stuck | 10/28/2007 |
| Q: i am currently studying Tourism Management and i enjoy doing it. i am not sure of what i want do ... A: Tourism management is a good degree. People travel more now than ever before. Many of the large ... | |
| clueless | 10/27/2007 |
| Q: I am feeling down right now because I am facing some "terrible" moments in my life. I just ... A: My first question is: did you PAY for your degree? Or did the school pay for it? If YOU paid for ... | |
| Networking | 10/25/2007 |
| Q: Dickeson, I hate with all my guts what I am doing right now in my professional life. That has made ... A: Here is what very successful people do: They start out with a pen and a piece of paper. Drawing a ... | |
| my lousy exsistence, no purpose | 10/16/2007 |
| Q: age 29, i have no direction, meaning of understanding of life. basically, i grew up socially ... A: AvPD, or AVP, is like most other emotional responses to our environment (I have ADHD). When we are ... | |
| My husbands Job | 10/15/2007 |
| Q: My husband has worked for the past 9yrs for the same company. He has worked there since graduating ... A: Explain to your husband WHY he feels the way he feels; The human body is a electrical/chemical ... | |
| Where do I go now? | 10/12/2007 |
| Q: David I have an Associates in Graphics. Developed a fulfilled career in 23 years. At 42 I got an ... A: First, the money. Go to Consumer Credit Counseling Service. They have local offices all over the ... | |
| can I get what I want? | 10/12/2007 |
| Q: I am confused about my career, if I should go get my masters in Marraige and family conseling, or ... A: Dancing is one part of a "healthy living 'stool.' Miss a "leg" in the 'stool," and you "fall-off" ... | |
| career | 9/17/2007 |
| Q: I am 26 years old, a muslim named as Yasir living in Pakistan. Having parents as practising doctors, ... A: First, lets discuss "distance learning" courses. Most employers recognize classes and degrees from ... | |
How to Get What You Want in Life
Answers by Expert:
David Dickeson, A.S.
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
Since age 13, I have always know what I wanted in life. And with persistance, time, patience, determination, stubbornness, and WRITING DOWN exactly what I wanted in life, I have achieved almost everything I wanted in life. Knowing EXACTLY what you want in life changes everything! You have direction, purpose, and are excited about each day. Other people can 'advise' you, but YOU decide what you want your life to be!
Experience
46 years of achieving everything I wanted in life. I know how to get what you want in life, HOW to get what you want in life, and most important! - how to NOT get what you do NOT WANT in life!. What else is there to say?
Education/Credentials
I have an Associate of Science Degree in General Busines
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