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About Kerry D Sim
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Expertise
I help people become clear about what they say they want, and hopefully clear about why they are not getting it. I do not answer questions like "How do I make a million dollars?" or "Where do I find my soul-mate?" or "What is the perfect job or career for me?" I also don't do "romance" question, like "What shall I do if my boyfriend/girlfriend confuses me? I don't understand my lover, what shall I do? I will answer questions from people who find themselves unclear, or confused about their purpose in life. I also help folks with limiting frameworks, beliefs, and emotional blocks that keep them stuck doing the same things over and over, while expecting different results.

Experience
Have been a personal development coach for 7 years. Trained in Energy Techniques, including Provocative Energy Technique. Considerable, and varied personal life experience, and have created a very practical relationship workshop, complete with effective communication tools. I specialize in hearing and speaking the truth, and it is unimportant in the process whether you like the truth as it exists, or not.

Education/Credentials
Coach training from Coachville.com school of coaching. Energy techniques training via Emofree.com and EFT Downunder. Life experience and training from many full years of living on this planet. I also have a certain amount of formal education, which, as far as I am concerned, is not necessarily pertinent to this endeavor.

   

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Questions Answered By Expert  Kerry D Sim 
In Category  How to Get What You Want in Life

SubjectDate Asked

dead end road9/1/2009
  Q: Recently turned 40 and I feel stuck in a dead end road. Can't seem to find a way out. I'm healthy, ...
  A: Go to a self-development seminar or workshop. Consult a spiritual mentor of your choice. Hire a ...
My Independence7/30/2009
  Q: my name is Mike. I'm 23 years old who is a graduate from Johnson & Wales University with a Fashion ...
  A: I'm not offended a bit, and I appreciate honesty. And I believe I answered your question "How can ...
My Independence7/29/2009
  Q: my name is Mike. I'm 23 years old who is a graduate from Johnson & Wales University with a Fashion ...
  A: Mike, You can gain your independence again by making a simple choice. Choose between what you have ...
purpose6/1/2009
  Q: I'm extremely confused and down about career, life, purpose, etc. I'm so totally lost I don't know ...
  A: Bob, There are three separate questions here, and they are all rather more complex than can be ...
motivation5/8/2009
  Q: I saw your website and was very intrigued. My question. I had a great spate of motivation a few ...
  A: Peter, My short answer to your question is "I don't know how you get your motivation back." Truly, ...
Communicate with wife5/2/2009
  Q: Any advice you can give me about how to get my wife to stop controlling our finances and make me a ...
  A: You know, I've been asked many times by clients how to get somebody else to stop (or start) doing ...
Self Sabotage4/7/2009
  Q: been out a few times, we've been getting on like a house on fire, it looks like it going to ...
  A: Well Ian, I have some thoughts, but truthfully this forum is not really suited to a quick effective ...
About being respectful3/4/2009
  Q: Ms. Sim, I am a 25 year old law student. I am concerned that I might have a respect issue. I have ...
  A: Jen, I'm curious that your subject line was :"About being respectful" I could be mistaken, but I ...
Will he want a divorce?11/19/2008
  Q: My husband asked Do I want to be with him for the rest of our lives.This was my answer.- Do I want ...
  A: "Well if you were him,what would you do?" If I were him, the relationship would not be in doubt. If ...
Will he want a divorce?11/18/2008
  Q: My husband asked Do I want to be with him for the rest of our lives.This was my answer.- Do I want ...
  A: So now I'm hearing that you are reluctant to tell him what you are actually thinking because you ...
Will he want a divorce?11/18/2008
  Q: My husband asked Do I want to be with him for the rest of our lives.This was my answer.- Do I want ...
  A: Corrina, I hope you got some value from writing this rather long and involved posting to me. I hope ...
Undecided11/17/2008
  Q: I'm 25 years old and I've been undecided about my career since I was a senior. I graduated last ...
  A: Natalie, It seems to me that you are at a point in your life where you are facing a simple choice. ...
confused11/16/2008
  Q: I am 29 years old. I joined a government organization in 1997 when I was 18 years old. After 6 ...
  A: I may not have made it clear in my previous email, but my job is one of Life Coach. Although I ...
confused11/15/2008
  Q: I am 29 years old. I joined a government organization in 1997 when I was 18 years old. After 6 ...
  A: Strange as it may sound, the process of self-actualization most often requires assistance from the ...
my husband10/20/2008
  Q: this subject should have came up b4 marriage but lucky for him it didn't. I sold my house and ...
  A: Well, I don't know how to answer the question "AM I WRONG ON THIS?" because I don't have any way of ...
School and Parents10/1/2008
  Q: I am trying to convince my parents that my current major isn't what I want to do for the rest of my ...
  A: My first thought is "why do you need your parents on board?" Are they paying for your education? If ...
indecisive!9/9/2008
  Q: Can I seek your advise? I'm currently working in an events management company since July 2008 as an ...
  A: Jess, I see absolutely nothing wrong with discussing any job or new position with anyone. People do ...
q8/18/2008
  Q: I came to the United States when I was 17 years old with my family from overseas. Now I am 31. Since ...
  A: Sammy, This is a rather puzzling question to me. I cannot answer with any kind of clarity with ...
lessons?7/19/2008
  Q: I'm in my early 20's and looking for coach/ personal trainer to help me become more assertive and ...
  A: Jay, I just happen to be a Life Coach, and I use a technique called Provocative Energy ...
I know I can make my wildest dreams come true, but why aren't they?7/18/2008
  Q: Hey Kerry, I'm 25 year old and working as a web designer, in my part time I do some side work like ...
  A: Hey Marko, My questions for you - usually me asking questions gets you closer to an answer to ...
help6/25/2008
  Q: Please help me im at the worst spot in my life. Me and my girl have be going out for 4 yrs and just ...
  A: Jerry, first of all let me apologize for the delay in answering. I have been having some computer ...
engagement help5/28/2008
  Q: How do you know if a girl really loves you? I am engaged about to be married in 9 weeks and my ...
  A: Michael, I can only say again, you cannot KNOW that someone will stand by you forever. It takes ...
engagement help5/27/2008
  Q: How do you know if a girl really loves you? I am engaged about to be married in 9 weeks and my ...
  A: Because I can't see much punctuation, your question is a bit hard to understand. I don't know for ...
ref4/27/2008
  Q: Good day, Lets say you are just starting out in business and trying to network with high profile men ...
  A: I don't think that there is a single answer that will cover everyone, including the very rich. ...
Ref: question4/25/2008
  Q: Good day, I was wondering how does a shy, avoidant, withdrawn 32 year old man who has lost all of ...
  A: Short answer is to simply change your mind about who you are. Henry Ford once said: "If you think ...
Motivation4/17/2008
  Q: My name is Patrick, and I'm 20 years old. I feel that I have a very good concept of what I want out ...
  A: Patrick, This is a forum for simple questions and simple answers. What you are asking seems simple ...
dispersion-scattered3/25/2008
  Q: I m 23 years graduated from university from one year my problem too complicated , I acquired a ...
  A: Sounds to me like all you have to do is make a choice about what you want to do with your life. To ...
lost & directionless3/21/2008
  Q: I am a 26 years old female. For the past few weeks I have been feeling general malaise & sickness ...
  A: Karen, It is impossible to respond with any kind of answer to what I read from you. All I read is a ...
my boyfriend told me that when he gets married and a house his mother is coming to live with us.3/4/2008
  Q: me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years we have talked about getting married when ...
  A: Here are some answers to your questions: Q - How can I make him understand, or see things from my ...
Balance3/3/2008
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and living together for over 1 1/2. He has a 5 ...
  A: "So what do I do? How do I balance it all? What is more important, and what’s not? If we get ...
Pls advise me2/17/2008
  Q: I am currently in a dilemma and I hope you can give me an advise or two. Here's my long story.. I'm ...
  A: Jessica, It says on my listing that I do not do career advice or questions... and I don't. However, ...
In a Fog2/8/2008
  Q: Kerry: Since childhood I've felt out of place in my life. I know this may sound dumb but I ...
  A: Shay, Thank you for the kind comments you posted on my allexperts page. I appreciate your thoughts. ...
Life and career2/4/2008
  Q: I m writing you abt my life so far, at this stage my life is almost hell, i dont know how to get ...
  A: If you wish to change your state of mind to Happy State, my suggestion is to start thinking about ...
help2/3/2008
  Q: I am so desperate because: *I worked 25 years as a fire fighter and then got retired. *While working ...
  A: Ivan I don't see a clear question here. I clearly mentioned in my profile page that I don't do ...
Life and career2/1/2008
  Q: I m writing you abt my life so far, at this stage my life is almost hell, i dont know how to get ...
  A: When working with clients who want change, I always recommend changing one's thoughts first. Simple ...
I want to leave my husband - How?1/31/2008
  Q: I have been married for almost nine years, throughout this time my husband has been physically & ...
  A: Tracy, This kind of forum is not the best place to get effective assistance with your problem, ...
Life and career1/31/2008
  Q: I m writing you abt my life so far, at this stage my life is almost hell, i dont know how to get ...
  A: kapoor I responded to this very same email earlier today by saying there is no question here. ...
I don't know what I want? and I don't have a lot of options either1/22/2008
  Q: I have just graduated from college, and I have worked in three different jobs and I hated them. lam ...
  A: Sorry for taking so long to answer. I just recently joined the site, and to tell the truth I forgot ...
helicopter husband1/17/2008
  Q: I want to put my true feeling in front of you, believing the fact - I'll get some relief. I'm ...
  A: Sorry for taking so long to answer. I just recently joined the site, and to tell the truth I forgot ...

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