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About Wendy Wuitschick
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As owner of Sorelle Weddings & Events in Southern California, I can answer any question you may have regarding your wedding. I have been involved in the wedding and event industry for over 13 years and have worked in many areas within the business. Whether you are planning a small intimate affair or a lavish Hollywood style event, I can assist you with anything you want to know.

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Experience is the best education. Over the past 13 years I have worked as a Catering Manager for a banquet facility, a Banquet Waitress and Office Manager for an offsite Caterer, a Party Rental Specialist, a Sales Manager for a Bridal Salon, an Event Coordinator for two LA based charities, and an Assistant Floral Arranger.

I am certified by the International Institute of Weddings as well as a member of the Association of Bridal Consultants, the International Institute of Weddings, and a board memeber for the Los Angeles Chapter of National Association of Catering Executives.

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Wedding Planning - Bridesmaid

Expert: Wendy Wuitschick - 10/14/2009

Question
My fiancé has a friend of about 4 years that she wants in the wedding. However since I have known this girl I have felt disrespected by comments she has made to my fiancé and to me regarding my fiancé's ex, whom she met through my fiancé and remains friends with. I have sat down with the girl and explained recently why I object to her being in the wedding after the situation blew up when my fiancé dropped the bomb on her last weekend. I feel she said some of the right things but also deferred blame to my fiancé and I. I'm just not convinced she supports our relationship. Even after our convo she told my fiancé I had said rude things during our talk, which is untrue or at the very least not my intention. The last thing I want is to have a girl standing behind my fiancé that does not support me o our relationship. My fiancé has been of the opinion that I am overreacting and shouldn't have anything to do with who she chooses. What are your thoughts?

Answer
Hi Josh:

I apologize for not answering sooner but I have been sick with bronchitis.

Anyway, I hear and appreciate what you are saying but it is ultimately your fiance's decision as to whom she has stand up for her. She may not support your relationship but she is supporting your fiance and at the end of the day, that is what truly matters. Her support of your relationship may very well come later.

I hope this helps.

Should you have any further questions, please feel free to contact me again.

Happy planning,
Wendy

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