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Our daughter is getting married in South Africa with a reception and then we will also be having a reception 3 weeks later in the US. I would like send one invitation listing both events and then one RSVP card also listing both events so guests can check one or both events.  Does this sound okay?

Hi, Congratulations!  Lots of great things going on for your family!  One of the major questions is this; is every guest invited to both events?  They don't have to be!

I feel that even though etiquette wise, it would be totally fine to one invite, it might be fun to have two different ones to express the personality of each party. Then you also have the opportunity to customize each guest list.  

They don't have to cost a fortune either; but wouldn't it be exciting to get two totally different invites to two great parties?

Don't forget to number the invites on the back or inside the Rsvp envelope; someone is totally going to send one back without their names on it!

Have a wonderful time, and congratulations!

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I can answer questions about wedding etiquette, wedding ceremony ideas, reception ideas, sticky situations....really, anything wedding. I cannot give specific legal advice, but I can connect couples with the correct information about state licensing.


After running a successful, upscale catering business for over 15 years, I went to seminary and then Celebrant USA to train as a wedding officiant and become ordained. I have personally officiated at over 700 weddings, and I now head a group of six other officiants. We have written and performed weddings and civil unions for mixed couples, non religious couples, and everyone in between. I am well versed in ethnic and cultural rituals, as well as creating new rituals for my couples that desire them.

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