Weddings/deceased father of bride
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I know you have answered this question in various forms 100 times but I will ask it once more. Is it too tacky to word an invitation Nancy Jones (the late Greg Jones)
is pleased to announce the marriage of her daughter.....
I really want my dad listed on the top of the invitation in the traditional way but is it just too wrong?
Amy:
Honestly, you shouldn't list the deceased on an invitation. It brings a sad moment to something that should not have any sadness surrounding it.
A better way to acknowledge your father would be something in the program, a memorial table or even you walking down the aisle alone. When the Officiant usually asks who gives you away, he can instead ask for a moment of silence for those that could not be in attendance.
I know that this isn't the answer that you were looking for, but I hope that I gave you some additional ways to honor his memory.
Best wishes,
~Shannon
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Shannon M Mason
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