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About Wendy Wuitschick
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As owner of Sorelle Weddings & Events in Southern California, I can answer any question you may have regarding your wedding. I have been involved in the wedding and event industry for over 13 years and have worked in many areas within the business. Whether you are planning a small intimate affair or a lavish Hollywood style event, I can assist you with anything you want to know.

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Experience is the best education. Over the past 13 years I have worked as a Catering Manager for a banquet facility, a Banquet Waitress and Office Manager for an offsite Caterer, a Party Rental Specialist, a Sales Manager for a Bridal Salon, an Event Coordinator for two LA based charities, and an Assistant Floral Arranger.

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I have received honors from the Make-A-Wish Foundation of Los Angeles for my assistance with their yearly fundraidser and from Heads Up Therapy for my run as President and my fundraising efforts.

I am certified by the International Institute of Weddings as well as a member of the Association of Bridal Consultants, the International Institute of Weddings, and a board memeber for the Los Angeles Chapter of National Association of Catering Executives.

 
   

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Topic: Weddings



Expert: Wendy Wuitschick
Date: 6/28/2008
Subject: invitation wording and etiquette

Question
my son's fiance has a blended family.  parents divorced, remarried and bothe
hosting the wedding.  She is very close to parents and step parents.  I gets more
complicated.  her mother and step father are both practicing MDs.  her step
mother uses her maiden na,me.  how can they word the invitations?

Answer
Hi Bettie:

Alot depends on whether or not they insist on having their names on the invitations.  She could do something simple such as:

The honour of your presence is requested at the marriage of
Bride's First, Middle, Last Name
to
Mr. Groom's First, Middle, Last Name
on
Date
Time
Location

This would be the easiest thing to do.  If however they are insisting that their names be stated on the invitation, well that gets a little tricky.    Traditionally, the Bride's Mother does not use her doctor designation.  So the invitation would read like this:

Dr.and Mrs. Bride's Stepfathers First, Last name and Mr. Bride's Father's First, Last Name and Ms. Bride's Stepmother's First, Last Name
request the honour of your presence......

If the mother wishes for her title to be used, it could be worded two ways.  Either The Doctor's Last Name or Dr. Bride's Mothers First, Last Name and Dr. Bride's Stepfathers First, Last Name.

If the stepmother doesn't mind, she could be listed as Mrs. First, Maiden, Married Last Name.

I hope this helps.  Should you have any further questions, please feel free to contact me again.

Happy planning,
Wendy Wuitschick, CWP  

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