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About Wendy Wuitschick
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As owner of Sorelle Weddings & Events in Southern California, I can answer any question you may have regarding your wedding. I have been involved in the wedding and event industry for over 13 years and have worked in many areas within the business. Whether you are planning a small intimate affair or a lavish Hollywood style event, I can assist you with anything you want to know.

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Experience is the best education. Over the past 13 years I have worked as a Catering Manager for a banquet facility, a Banquet Waitress and Office Manager for an offsite Caterer, a Party Rental Specialist, a Sales Manager for a Bridal Salon, an Event Coordinator for two LA based charities, and an Assistant Floral Arranger.

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I have received honors from the Make-A-Wish Foundation of Los Angeles for my assistance with their yearly fundraidser and from Heads Up Therapy for my run as President and my fundraising efforts.

I am certified by the International Institute of Weddings as well as a member of the Association of Bridal Consultants, the International Institute of Weddings, and a board memeber for the Los Angeles Chapter of National Association of Catering Executives.

 
   

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Weddings - Step-parent at wedding


Expert: Wendy Wuitschick - 7/29/2009

Question
I (the groom) am getting married and my parents are divorced. My mom has not remarried and my dad remarried 5 years ago. My dad and his wife live overseas so I do not consider her a step-mother - moreso my dad's wife. How do I handle the program? I'm inclined to have "Parents of the Groom: Jane Doe and John Doe" and not include my dad's wife. Is that okay? What about the processional? Should my dad and his wife just be seated with the other guests? If my dad had not remarried would he be a part of the processional or just be seated with other guests?  Thanks!

Answer
Hi John:

It is okay if it won't hurt anyone's feelings.  If you think your dad will be hurt that you left out his wife then I would word it more like

Parents of the Groom: Jane Doe and Mr. & Mrs. John Doe

As for the processional, your father would only be a part of it if he and your mother were still married.  I would have them seated with the other guests but in the front row next to your mother if they get along.  If not, then etiquette dictates that they sit in the second row.

I hope this helps.  Should you have any further questions, please feel free to contact me again.

Happy planning,
Wendy Wuitschick, CWP

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