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| RSVP | 8/27/2008 |
Q: Is it the duty of the wedding planner to call guests who haven't rsvp'd or should this be handled by ...
A: This would depend on what the contract is between you and the wedding planner. If they have ...
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| wedding stress(feb 09 wedding) | 8/19/2008 |
Q: I found this site while feverishly looking for wedding venues in the central Florida area. For the ...
A: Yes, you have your work cut out. However, here's some ways to keep your costs down. Choose a ...
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| Wording on invitation | 8/19/2008 |
Q: my name is melanie and i am from Germany. My fiancee is American and I will move to the states in ...
A: You are not alone with this delima as it's happening quite often, especially with those in the ...
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| Chocolate brown bridesmaid dress | 8/14/2008 |
Q: Actually, the colour is technically called 'truffle' from David's bridal---so it is a very deep ...
A: Sorry I didn't get back sooner, but I've been out of town. Black is always a good back up and ...
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| Chocolate brown bridesmaid dress | 8/14/2008 |
Q: Actually, the colour is technically called 'truffle' from David's bridal---so it is a very deep ...
A: Have you tried a copper color? If you can't find something that is close to the color, then black ...
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| very small intimate wedding | 8/9/2008 |
Q: My daughter and her fiance are planning on getting married at the end of this month while he is on ...
A: I would have him do it. How often does a father get to present his daughter.twice..to the same man ...
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| very small intimate wedding | 8/9/2008 |
Q: My daughter and her fiance are planning on getting married at the end of this month while he is on ...
A: Actually, I working with another couple who are doing the same thing. Please forgive me for being ...
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| what is the proper order of seating and escorting | 8/6/2008 |
Q: father of brides has remarried. the brides mother is single. what is the proper order of seating for ...
A: Do they get along enough to sit together on the first row? Many couples do this, simply to show a ...
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| Wedding Gifts | 8/5/2008 |
Q: What is an appropriate gift for a 2nd wedding. We were at the groom's first wedding. Groom's father ...
A: Something fun like a picnic basket with placemats, wine glasses, silverware, etc is nice. Maybe put ...
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| what is the proper order of seating and escorting | 8/5/2008 |
Q: father of brides has remarried. the brides mother is single. what is the proper order of seating for ...
A: The proper way is to seat the groom's mother, then the bride's step mother, then the bride's mother. ...
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| my son | 8/1/2008 |
Q: My fiance is not my son's father, but they have a great relationship. He would like to say something ...
A: There's several ways you can do this. Work with your officiant to add a vow that your son can be ...
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| invites | 7/30/2008 |
Q: My daughter's wedding will be held on the opposite side of town, about 30-45 minutes drive for about ...
A: I don't see why not. It's not unusual for me to do maps coming from two different directions to a ...
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| dress question? | 7/30/2008 |
Q: I am a bridesmaid in my sister's wedding. The dress is rather low-cut and I had it altered once ...
A: I'd suggest going back to the alterations person and ask about possibly putting a lace inset into ...
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| Mother of the Bride responsibilities. | 7/30/2008 |
Q: My husband and I are stationed in Germany and our beautiful, clever, super-organized, and thrifty ...
A: Don't fret, you're not alone when it comes to these questions. The gifts to the bridesmaids and ...
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| guest attire | 7/28/2008 |
Q: I was hoping to get some insight into a matter. I have a 2:00 catholic wedding to attend in early ...
A: Since it's August and it wasn't mentioned "black tie" then I see nothing wrong with wearing a nice ...
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| Destination wedding invitations with home reception | 7/28/2008 |
Q: If we are planning a destination wedding with a reception at home a few months later, and we don't ...
A: As a rule, you won't mention the reception, except through word of mouth. This way if things happen ...
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| Out of Town Best Man | 7/25/2008 |
Q: My parents say that we should pay for our the travel arrangements of my fiancee's best man, who is ...
A: If you can afford to, it would be a beautiful gesture. However, the wedding party, like guests, are ...
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| bridal flowers | 7/22/2008 |
Q: I'm getting married Oct. 2008, I'm trying to stay with the rich fall colors. My bridesmaids dresses ...
A: What I'd recommend is that you take a swatch of the dresses to the florist and ask if they can take ...
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| Granddaughters Wedding | 7/17/2008 |
Q: My granddaughter is having a very small wedding @ 4 O'clock in the afternoon in the month of ...
A: Navy would be appropriate. To help you select a color, visualize how the pictures will look. Other ...
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| post wedding celebration | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I was married in Italy 7 months ago because I live here and my husband is Italian so it really ...
A: First, I see nothing wrong with you wearing your wedding dress. It would tie everything in if you ...
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| Not sure! | 7/9/2008 |
Q: My name is Jamie and I am 29 years old. I am engaged and had a question that is making me nervous. ...
A: Actually the process of the wedding is pretty straight forward. Solos can be done before the ...
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| Groom's parents refuse to cut their guest list | 7/5/2008 |
Q: Our daughter is getting married in October. It is our first wedding. The reception hall they ...
A: Be cool, calm and collected. Don't get upset...hard I know, but try not to get emotional. Would it ...
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| Wedding color coordination | 7/2/2008 |
Q: I have chosen my BM colors to be Platinum with Red as the accent color. Meaning I want all red ...
A: Are you having your mothers wearing or carrying red flowers as well? They should look fine with ...
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| Wedding color coordination | 7/2/2008 |
Q: I have chosen my BM colors to be Platinum with Red as the accent color. Meaning I want all red ...
A: You could have them wear platinum, however, a complimentary color such as shades of blues, greens, ...
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| Groom's parents refuse to cut their guest list | 6/30/2008 |
Q: Our daughter is getting married in October. It is our first wedding. The reception hall they ...
A: Unfortunately, weddings bring out the best and the worst in people! Who's paying for the wedding? ...
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| Wedding Gifts and Wedding Invites | 6/29/2008 |
Q: We are working on our wedding guest list. Many people in our lives know about our engagement. What ...
A: You just need to send a thank you as you would for any gift. If someone chooses to send a gift, ...
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| wedding invitation enclosures | 6/27/2008 |
Q: my son(who lives in Denver) is getting amrried in the mountains in Sept. sort of a destination ...
A: Colorado is a great place for mountain weddings and Sept. is beautiful. (I live here and work a lot ...
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| wedding color scheme that mataches my dress | 6/23/2008 |
Q: I purchased a Maggie Sottero dress. It is white with a champagne color lace in it. You can look at ...
A: The nice thing about champagne is that almost any color will look good. You could consider a rich ...
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| two wedding ceremonies | 6/22/2008 |
Q: My fiance and I are getting married in a private ceremony at a Sandals Resort in St. Lucia in ...
A: Absolutely! This is done quite frequently when people have gotten married for various reasons, but ...
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| Dress the wedding planner! | 6/20/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend is getting married in a few days and I am the wedding planner.. For the longest I was ...
A: First, I'd recommend you get a good pair of tennis shoes to wear at the reception as you'll be doing ...
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| Grooms wedding ring | 6/18/2008 |
Q: Who is responsible for paying for the grooms ring?
A: This is one of the items that comes under the bride's expenses. Hope this helps. Please let me ...
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| weddings | 6/12/2008 |
Q: looking for wedding invatation wording
A: There's many ways to word your invitation. The most popular are: Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Wade Smith ...
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| step parent seating | 6/6/2008 |
Q: My fiancee's parents are divorced and both remarried after he became an adult. Are his parents ...
A: There's a couple of ways to do this. If the couples get along, they can sit together. However, the ...
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| Escorting | 6/1/2008 |
Q: Is the mother of the bride and groom escorted into the cermony on the ushers right arm or left arm? ...
A: I have the mother of the bride escorted in on the usher's left arm, and the groom's mother on the ...
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| invitation dillema | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I am a bride to be in August of this year, I need some advice on the wording of the invitations. My ...
A: The proper way to word your invitations would be: Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Brown (your mother) Mr. and ...
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| Should we send a gift? How much? | 5/29/2008 |
Q: Good Morning! Two good friends of ours (separate couples) are getting married on the exact same day ...
A: When you receive a wedding invitation, that's exactly what it is, an invitation to attend the ...
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| Shower Invitees | 5/28/2008 |
Q: I am the MOB, and my daughter's future mother in law is throwing the shower for her. She has not ...
A: Generally, unless the shower is a surprise, the bride has some say as to guest list. To be honest, ...
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| post wedding celebration | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I was married in Italy 7 months ago because I live here and my husband is Italian so it really ...
A: Yes, it's fine to ask questions on this site. I'm always happy to try to assist. As for your ...
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| wedding invitations | 5/21/2008 |
Q: My ex-husband is the mayor of the city we live in. He also has "no money problems". We both have ...
A: As much as I'd like to say "forget to mail her an invite", I can't. You are correct in taking the ...
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| wedding invitations | 5/21/2008 |
Q: My ex-husband is the mayor of the city we live in. He also has "no money problems". We both have ...
A: My heart goes out to you. There's no reason your ex should be writing the invitations, that should ...
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| invitations | 5/20/2008 |
Q: My daughter is having a fairly small wedding. There is alot of relatives on both sides, so the ...
A: There is nothing wrong with not including "and guest", unless there is a significant other involved, ...
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| Renewing wedding vows | 5/19/2008 |
Q: My husband and I were married 6 years this coming sept. When we got married the first time, there ...
A: There's nothing wrong in having the wedding you've dreamed of. A couple of things, on the ...
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| heip | 5/16/2008 |
Q: best color for mother of the groom, mother of bride in bisque,ushers in black , bridesmaids in red ...
A: Have you asked the bride what color she'd like to see you in? Any shade of blue, green or pink ...
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| attire for wedding officiant | 5/16/2008 |
Q: My question is this: The officiant at our wedding is my boss and I like her style of dress to begin ...
A: Most officiants will wear black or navy blue suits. If they have a robe they may wear it (which is ...
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| champagne and black wedding | 5/15/2008 |
Q: I am getting married in September 08. My dress is a champagne satin with a bit of ivory in the ...
A: Flowers can be a problem, however, you have some great basic colors to work with. I would suggest ...
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| military rank on invitations | 5/14/2008 |
Q: My son is a Captain in the US Army (active duty). He is also an Army dentist. How should his title ...
A: This is very interesting as I haven't been able to find anything that covers your question. ...
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| post wedding celebration | 5/12/2008 |
Q: I was married in Italy 7 months ago because I live here and my husband is Italian so it really ...
A: (I'm on my way out the door to meet a client, but wanted to answer. I'll get back to you this ...
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| Registery in invitation ot separate - Multi Cultural Wedding | 5/10/2008 |
Q: HELP...my son is planning to marry a lovely Vietnamese woman 8/17/08. They are working on the ...
A: This is always a dalema for couples. You don't want to mention registries or gifts in the ...
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| Guatemalan wedding help!!! please | 5/9/2008 |
Q: i'm doing a spainish project on Guatemalan weddings, how they celebrate what the brides has to wear ...
A: Hopefully this will help: In Guatemala, where family means everything, it is common for girls to ...
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| Elope and still have the wedding? | 4/30/2008 |
Q: My finance and I have decided that we would like to elope, but we'd really like to have our August ...
A: You'd be surprised how many couples get married before the actual wedding. The only way to keep it ...
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| wedding | 4/28/2008 |
Q: how do I determine how many plates, cups etc to purchase ANSWER: Hi Susan, If you are having the ...
A: With a buffet, if people are used to using a new plate every time they go through the line again, ...
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| wedding | 4/28/2008 |
Q: how do I determine how many plates, cups etc to purchase
A: If you are having the wedding catered, the caterer should take care of this for you. If you are ...
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| Saying no to a good friend? | 4/23/2008 |
Q: One of my very good friends is getting married in October, and she has asked me to be in her wedding ...
A: You are well within your rights to say no. You have very valid reasons, especially financial ones. ...
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| maid of honor | 4/22/2008 |
Q: My daughter wants her 15 year old sister to be her maid of honor in her wedding. I would like to ...
A: What a beautiful gesture! Yes, it's fine for the 15 year old to be the maid of honor, however, she ...
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| Bride parents divorced...what does the Mother pay for? | 4/14/2008 |
Q: How do some folks handle the financial responsibilities/obligations when bride's parents are ...
A: As I see it, there's a couple of ways you could handle this. 1) Set an amount you are comfortable ...
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| Paying for out of town guests, friends, etc. | 4/14/2008 |
Q: We are having a time trying to decide what the usual is for paying lodging/hotel for friends and ...
A: It's the obligation of each guest to pay for their own lodging. What you need to do is make some ...
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| wording for save the date | 4/13/2008 |
Q: My son will be married in a private cermony and I am planning a reception for a few weeks later How ...
A: How long will it be between the wedding and the reception? If it's more than 6 weeks, then here's ...
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| tuxedo colors | 4/13/2008 |
Q: My son is getting married in June. He chose black tuxedos for his bestman and groomsmen. The vests ...
A: It's not unusual for a groom to wear a white tux, however, if his bride's dress isn't a stark white ...
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| wording for save the date | 4/13/2008 |
Q: My son will be married in a private cermony and I am planning a reception for a few weeks later How ...
A: You can simply say "Save the Date", August 15, 2008, for a party. Formal invitation to follow. ...
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| Catering attendance numbers | 4/8/2008 |
Q: You answered a question for me a week ago about wedding attendance. I have a follow up related to ...
A: This is a good question. When I give a guarantee, I use the actual number of those who have RSVP'd ...
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| What to wear? | 4/6/2008 |
Q: My son is getting married in May at 2:00 p.m.. The bride is wearing an ivory gown and the ...
A: Since the bride is wearing a very formal gown, I see nothing wrong with the ivory, especially since ...
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| What to wear? | 4/5/2008 |
Q: My son is getting married in May at 2:00 p.m.. The bride is wearing an ivory gown and the ...
A: I'm kind of surprised that the bride's mother has chosen a black floor length dress for a 2pm ...
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| directing a wedding | 4/2/2008 |
Q: I will be directing a wedding in June, the church has to aisles. Where would I seat the mothers? ...
A: If the aisles are on the outside and form three rows of pews, then what I do is have the groom's ...
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| instructions on directing the ceremony | 4/2/2008 |
Q: Is there a booklet or video, just on the actual ceremony--I,am directing the rehearsal and the ...
A: I actually have made a video that I use with my course,(and I sell for $59) that shows you what you ...
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| wedding guest attendance | 4/1/2008 |
Q: I am concerned about our wedding guest attendance. We sent out 130 invitations, which correlated to ...
A: Honestly, I think you'll have a lot more fun with a guest count of 125-150. This is a good size ...
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| wedding guest attendance | 4/1/2008 |
Q: I am concerned about our wedding guest attendance. We sent out 130 invitations, which correlated to ...
A: Generally I figure about 20% won't make it. Do get on the phone and call those who haven't sent ...
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| Military groomsmen | 3/30/2008 |
Q: Is it okay to ask a military groomsmen not to wear his dress blues in the wedding?
A: It's perfectly okay for them not to wear his uniform if he doesn't want to or if you want everyone ...
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| guests | 3/28/2008 |
Q: Well, we've hit our first major snag. Only family were invited to the ceremony, and then all ...
A: If a couple has been dating for a long time, engaged or married, then the significant other should ...
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| ceremony | 3/27/2008 |
Q: Could you read over what I have planned for my ceremony and let me know if you find any glaring ...
A: I would recommend starting the music about 30 min. ahead of time as this is when guests will start ...
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| guidelines | 3/26/2008 |
Q: I recently read an answer you gave as to ceremony guideline, and I was wondering if you could do the ...
A: First decide if you want to be there to act as hosts or would you like to be introduced in. If you ...
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| Beach Wedding | 3/20/2008 |
Q: Well I want my wedding on a beach, but both mine and my future husband grandparents have limiter ...
A: I would think the best thing would be to put planks of wood down for them to walk on. Anything ...
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| directing the actual wedding | 3/18/2008 |
Q: Do you have a guideline to go by? I am concerned about the actual wedding itself. Who goes in ...
A: Yes, I do. I'm happy to help you. The rehearsal is an opportunity to run through the wedding ...
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| Latin American | 3/18/2008 |
Q: I am working with a bride to develop her invtations and programs and she would like to incorporate ...
A: You could, however, we put it under the Rite of Marriage. Do you have a fax? I'd be glad to send ...
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| Latin American "Arras" Tradition | 3/18/2008 |
Q: I am working with a bride to develop her invtations and programs and she would like to incorporate ...
A: Here's the way I handled the explainations: The Meaning fo the Lasso Tradition: The lasso is a ...
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| Italian Wedding Gift Suggestions | 3/15/2008 |
Q: My parents are from Sicily and although my parents have since passed, my husband and I will be going ...
A: I'd look for something that is specific to the US. Perhaps something made from pottery or wood. ...
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| JP | 3/11/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend are going to get married by the JP in august. Then have a big wedding with all ...
A: For legal reasons, your marriage license will have the date you actually get married on it. This is ...
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| Wedding reception/party separate from actual ceremony | 3/3/2008 |
Q: We are getting married in a small ceremony for just family. However, we are planning to have 2 ...
A: You can actually access a couple of invitation companies through my website - ...
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| Groom Wear | 2/27/2008 |
Q: I have been trying to decide what I am going to wear for my wedding. It is a beach wedding, and it ...
A: I think I'd suggest you not wear a blazer. Most of the pictures you see, show men wearing white ...
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| groom's responsibility | 2/26/2008 |
Q: My son is getting married out of town. Are we suppose to pay for the rooms for the groomsmen?
A: No, you aren't responsible for their rooms. However, if you are in a position to help them out, I'm ...
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| Destination wedding for only immediate family | 2/25/2008 |
Q: I'm in a tough situation right now. My fiance and I have decided to have a destination wedding in ...
A: You can do a couple of things. One would be to send invitations to everyone and let them make the ...
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| Picking a Wedding Day | 2/21/2008 |
Q: My Husband and I were married 9 years ago on August 7th. His sister has announced today that she ...
A: I doubt that she's doing this to be rude. There are many, many couples getting married this year on ...
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| RSVP's | 2/18/2008 |
Q: Is it accetpable not to put postage on the RSVP cards that are included in the wedding invitations? ...
A: Eventhough are are temped to not put stamps on, don't sucomb to this urge. If you want the RSVPs ...
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| sixteenth birthday party | 2/13/2008 |
Q: A song to play from a father that died when I was only 5 years old ANSWER: Dear Samantha, I'll be ...
A: I think this is a beautiful idea. Do you remember any special songs you and your dad may have ...
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| Father wont come to the wedding! | 2/13/2008 |
Q: I am a bride to be in approx. 10 days. I just received an e-mail from my father saying he and my ...
A: There has to be another reason your father doesn't want to come. Can you sit down with him to get ...
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| Simple wedding | 2/10/2008 |
Q: I am directing a wedding for the first time and need to know the basics, such as who enters the ...
A: Here's the order of your processional: The groom's grandparents are seated The bride's ...
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| already married | 2/6/2008 |
Q: what is a clever way fun way to inform guest AT THE CEREMONY THAT THERE WILL NOT BE A CEREMONY WE ...
A: Have you considered doing your vows, again, in front of your guests? Since you've probably gone to ...
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| already married | 2/5/2008 |
Q: what is a clever way fun way to inform guest AT THE CEREMONY THAT THERE WILL NOT BE A CEREMONY WE ...
A: Since you aren't having a ceremony, I'd find a fun invitation to a reception. Since you are already ...
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| mother of the groom VERY casual beach wedding | 2/5/2008 |
Q: My son is geting married in March at Key West. He is wearing a white shirt with khaki trousers and ...
A: I would recommend a nice dress that is knee length. If it's warm enough, it could be sleeveless, ...
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| Color to compliment red | 2/3/2008 |
Q: My son is having an informal wedding on 04/28/2008. The wedding colors are red, white and champagne. ...
A: Sorry I didn't get back to you yesterday as I was working with one of my brides! Anyway, I'd go ...
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| 3 little boys | 2/2/2008 |
Q: I'm in such a bind. I have my son who is 8 and my two nephews who will be 4,and 2 (one from the ...
A: First, I'd say reconsider the 2 year old. This is really young and very unpredicitable. However, ...
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| Champagne Dress | 1/29/2008 |
Q: My bride to be is wearing a champagne wedding dress and I'm having a hard time deciding what tux to ...
A: My first suggestion would be black with champagne tie and vest. If you wear brown, that's ...
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| beach wedding | 1/29/2008 |
Q: i am looking to have a small informal ceremony on the beach with about 50 people. we then either ...
A: Here's some websites to check out: www.myconnecticutwedding.com/sitemap.html ...
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| Wedding Suprise Idea | 1/28/2008 |
Q: Our friend is getting married and we would like to arrange for a surprise for her in some sort of an ...
A: Another idea is to put together a recipie book of your favorite dishes. You could do this in almost ...
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| Wedding Suprise Idea | 1/27/2008 |
Q: Our friend is getting married and we would like to arrange for a surprise for her in some sort of an ...
A: Do you all sing? If so, you could do a special song for the bride and groom, possibily including ...
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| Planning alone | 1/26/2008 |
Q: Planning a wedding is supposed to be exciting, however, I am finding it to be depressing. I am the ...
A: If I were there I'd give you a big, reassuring hug! The thing about weddings is it brings out the ...
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| groom's parents paying responsibliy at rehearsal dinnner | 1/23/2008 |
Q: My granddaughter is getting married soon. Her parents are paying for most of the wedding and his ...
A: I would suggest that they invite the bride, groom, attendants and parents. If the parents of the ...
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| groom's parents paying responsibliy at rehearsal dinnner | 1/22/2008 |
Q: My granddaughter is getting married soon. Her parents are paying for most of the wedding and his ...
A: Weddings tend to bring out the very best and the very worst in people...family included. It's sad ...
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| wedding veils | 1/22/2008 |
Q: My daughter is getting married in the Catholic church (mass)and she does not wish to wear a veil. ...
A: As far as I know, there's nothing that says a bride must wear a veil in a Catholic Church. More and ...
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| help | 1/20/2008 |
Q: what if the grooms prents are paying for eveything but i want to include the brides parents what do ...
A: That's always difficult. You pray and hope they will all be cordial for the couple. As for the ...
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| help | 1/20/2008 |
Q: what if the grooms prents are paying for eveything but i want to include the brides parents what do ...
A: You'd word the invitation: Mr. and Mrs. Albert Thomas (Bride's Parents) and Mr. and Mrs. Dwight ...
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| daughter-in-law's wedding | 1/16/2008 |
Q: My son passed 5 yrs. ago leaving a wife and two sons. She is getting married this coming May and ...
A: By all means if you are invited! Your attending the wedding, tells the bride that you support her ...
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| colors | 1/16/2008 |
Q: My stepdaughter is getting married in September,In Florida.I am not in the wedding but would like to ...
A: Check and see what colors the bride's mother and groom's mothers are wearing then find something ...
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| Wording of rehearsal dinner invites when father is deceased | 1/15/2008 |
Q: My brother is getting married and we are in the process of planning to send out rehearsal dinner ...
A: Here's a couple of examples how to word your invitations. You won't mention your father here, ...
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| proper attire | 1/6/2008 |
Q: I'm attending a wedding in mid-February. The wedding is at 6pm. What do I wear...color? dress ...
A: Since the wedding is after 5, it's considered formal. I'd recommend a cocktail style dress in any ...
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| Mother-zilla | 1/3/2008 |
Q: I'm not sure if you can help with this one. There is less than 90 days until my wedding. I live in ...
A: I'm so sorry for everything you are going through with your mother. Unfortunately, weddings bring ...
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| FMIL Drama | 12/28/2007 |
Q: My FMIL is a VERY dramatic person. Very long story on what she has put us through but to get to the ...
A: WOW! First, have you considered hiring a coordinator to assist you? We not only help with the ...
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| Destination Wedding/Home Reception | 12/24/2007 |
Q: My fiance and I are getting married in Jamaica on June 14th. We are having the reception at home on ...
A: You can forego the ceremony and have them announced into the reception as you would if they had ...
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| invitation wording. | 12/22/2007 |
Q: My fiance's parents are paying for the wedding but I don't want to leave my mom out on the ...
A: You can word your invitations several different ways. We, Erin and Bryan joyously invite you to ...
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| Matron of Honor | 12/18/2007 |
Q: I am having real issues with my Matron of Honor. It all started a few months ago with an apparent ...
A: It makes me so sad when this happens, but it does. Unfortunately, weddings bring out the best and ...
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| Wedding Ceremony | 12/7/2007 |
Q: "Hello..My Fiance and are are planning a wedding in Hawaii in Aug. 08. Many family members cannot ...
A: What I'm understanding is that you want to do a "mock" wedding for your family/friends. If this is ...
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| Wedding Ceremony | 12/7/2007 |
Q: "Hello..My Fiance and are are planning a wedding in Hawaii in Aug. 08. Many family members cannot ...
A: Since you are waiting until you get back to go through the ceremony, there's no legal papers ...
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| Long or short | 12/4/2007 |
Q: My sister will be getting married in June of 2008. I was asked to be her maid of honor(only maid). ...
A: Typically, if the wedding/reception is going to be past 5pm, then a long dress would be ...
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| father of the groom | 11/28/2007 |
Q: Would it be weird for my fiance to ask his father to be a groomsman? I think his father would be ...
A: Not at all. I've had groomsmen who had their dad stand up as their best man. It's an honor and if ...
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| No father of the bride | 11/28/2007 |
Q: My fiance and I have recently become engaged and have started planning the wedding. We have a slight ...
A: This is not an uncommon situation. Do you have a brother or favorite uncle who you could ask? ...
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| Wedding attire for November wedding | 11/10/2007 |
Q: What attire is expected for a 3:30pm November church wedding with a reception following at a yacht ...
A: Cocktail attire would be appropriate. Dark suit and tie for men and cocktail style dress for women. ...
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| Guest Apparel | 11/8/2007 |
Q: My fiancee and I come from totally different economic backgrounds, and while I wanted a small (10-20 ...
A: This can be a problem. I deal with this often and really try to make everyone feel comfortable. ...
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| etiquette - in-laws | 11/1/2007 |
Q: What is the best way to indicate the relationship to me of the mother of my daughter's husband? She ...
A: I would simply say, "I'd like to introduce Sharon. She is my daughter's mother-in-law." or you ...
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| what can i expect for a 3-7 pm wedding reception? | 10/31/2007 |
Q: The couple got married in a private ceremony in the mountains and are now coming home to have a ...
A: Since the reception is at the church, and at this early hour, this will be more of an "open house", ...
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| 2nd Wedding/Same Couple Etiquette | 10/30/2007 |
Q: My brother-in-law is remarrying his second wife after a nasty, nasty divorce about four years ago. ...
A: WOW! An invitation is exactly that, an invitation to a wedding, not to bring a gift. You are under ...
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| Air National Guard wording on Invitation | 10/30/2007 |
Q: My fiance is a commissioned officer (Captain to be exact) who is currently serving in the ...
A: I must tell you this is the first time I've been asked this question. However, because of the way ...
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| Escorting down the aisle | 10/26/2007 |
Q: I am getting married and my parents are divorced. My stepdad has always treated me like his own ...
A: I have had this circumstance on several ocassions. A couple of ideas are: Have your step-dad walk ...
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| wedding | 10/25/2007 |
Q: I will be attending a wedding near Scottsdale, AZ on November 3rd. The ceremony is at 4:30 and the ...
A: Because the reception is after 5pm, it would be considered more formal. Therefore, a cocktail type ...
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| cross-cultural wedding | 10/20/2007 |
Q: i'm vietnamese and my fiance is persian. neither of us has had much exposure to the wedding ...
A: This is the sort of wedding I love to plan since you can be very creative to make it meaningful to ...
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| catering | 10/17/2007 |
Q: I am recently divorced and must go to work. I have always liked cooking and am very seriously ...
A: First, I think you should work for a good caterer to find out all that is involved. It's more than ...
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| BBQ/Lake Wedding Style | 10/1/2007 |
Q: I am assisting a friends sister in the planning of her wedding. The bride is an outdoors ...
A: Being located in Colorado, I can certainly relate to your bride. The location sounds beautiful. ...
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| Grooms Input | 10/1/2007 |
Q: Does the groom have any input in the wedding plans, my son was told his job was just to show up for ...
A: From my point of view, yes he does. After all, it's his wedding day too! Many of my grooms like ...
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| December wedding...non-traditional | 9/27/2007 |
Q: Help. My daughter is getting married this December. She is very non-traditional, modern thinking ...
A: What you might do is have the attendants wear chocolate brown with cream or yellow sashes. They ...
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| Wording for invitation to a party to celebrate our marriage. | 9/27/2007 |
Q: I'm having trouble trying to decide how to word an invitation to a party for friends to celebrate ...
A: Here's how I would word your invitations: Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Jones request the pleasure of your ...
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| Marriage | 9/25/2007 |
Q: I would like to have an inexpensive but very nice and unique wedding, we have $1000 to work with I ...
A: One way to keep your cost down is to have either a morning wedding, say around 10am or an afternoon ...
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| handicap individual in the wedding party | 9/24/2007 |
Q: I have a grandmother of the bride that is handicap and will be using a walker. What is the proper ...
A: You can do this a couple of ways. 1) You can have her already seated before the processional ...
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| AFTERNOON FALL WEDDING & RECEPTION | 9/21/2007 |
Q: MY HUSBAND IS THE BEST MAN AT A VERY SMALL (45 GUEST LIST) WEDDING & RECEPTION. THE WEDDING IS IN A ...
A: You could wear a nice dress or suit (something that you'd wear to church or out for a nice dinner). ...
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| Indian style wedding theme | 9/19/2007 |
Q: I like either cherry blossom wedding theme or Indian style (Asian Indian) with rich colors. Any ...
A: Without knowing your budget and guest list, it's kind of hard to know where to start, however, ...
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| Timeline | 9/17/2007 |
Q: I need help with a timeline the wedding day. It is a 3:30pm wedding...what time does everyone need ...
A: If you could give me a bit more detail, I'll put a timeline together for you. I need to know what ...
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| processional | 9/14/2007 |
Q: When should step-mothers and/ or step-fathers go down the isle and where should they be seated? ...
A: When step parents are involved this is how it goes: The step mother of the groom is escorted in ...
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| What to wear? | 9/12/2007 |
Q: This is the first family function with my new boyfriend. I am going to an early october wedding and ...
A: How formal is the wedding? Is the reception after 5 pm? If you answer yes to these questions, then ...
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| What to wear to a fall afternoon wedding in NY? | 9/7/2007 |
Q: I am attending a wedding in the middle of October in Western NY state, near Buffalo. The wedding is ...
A: The nice thing about October is that you can wear jewel tones. Yes, even black is acceptable, ...
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| White pants to a wedding | 9/7/2007 |
Q: I'm going to a wedding soon, and I'm trying to plan my outfit. I have a great pair of white pants ...
A: I would recommend you not wear slacks, unless this is a casual wedding or the slacks are more ...
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| Groom Attire 2pm Wediing | 9/2/2007 |
Q: Our wedding will be at a Hotel Chapel, at 2pm. My Fiance would like to wear a tailcoat. Is that ...
A: There was a time when tailcoats were either worn in the morning or for ultra-formal weddings. ...
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| Proper Female Officiant Attire | 9/2/2007 |
Q: what is the proper attire for a female officiant at a wedding?
A: If you are ordained, then it would be appropriate to wear your robes. The same if you are a judge. ...
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| Fashion | 8/30/2007 |
Q: I am not sure if the paisley design is suitable for the occasion and if its not old fashioned. ...
A: I think I would switch that around to have the groom wear a paisley vest and solid white tie, or a ...
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| Fashion | 8/30/2007 |
Q: I am not sure if the paisley design is suitable for the occasion and if its not old fashioned. ...
A: The nice thing about weddings today is that almost anything is acceptable. If the groom wants to ...
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| REHERSAL DINNER | 8/28/2007 |
Q: DO BOYFRIENDS GIRLFRIENDS AND SPOUSES COME TO THE REHEARSAL DINNER OF THE WEDDING PARTY AND DO THE ...
A: As a rule, if the boy or girlfried is someone that the attendant has been dating for quite a while, ...
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| Wedding colour matching | 8/28/2007 |
Q: I am looking at ordering a latte or champagine colour wedding dress. My invitations are turquoise ...
A: Just wanted to let you know I'm working on your question. I've had to be out of my office a lot ...
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| Gift Etiquette | 8/27/2007 |
Q: I have always thought that it was OK to buy a gift of any monetary amount and bring it to the ...
A: I always recommend to my brides, that when they register, they select a good range of price points. ...
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| Getting Married by Justice of the Peace | 8/22/2007 |
Q: My daughter is expecting her first child in January. They were planning on getting married August of ...
A: You'd be surprised at how many weddings I help with, where the couple is already married. I think ...
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| Japanese wedding etiquette | 8/21/2007 |
Q: My son is engaged to an American of Japanese decent. Her parents came to America about 40 yrs ago. ...
A: Since your son's fiancee's family has been here so long, they have obviously adopted the American ...
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| Not invited. | 8/11/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend of a year was recently invited to a wedding. In addition, he was invited to be a party ...
A: I have to agree that this was not appropriate to do, especially since you have been together for ...
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| rehersal dinner | 8/8/2007 |
Q: Who should be invited to the rehersal dinner?
A: This is totally up to the couple and to the groom's family, if they are paying the bill. ...
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| Renewing wedding vows | 8/5/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 13 years and we are wanting to renew our vows. What needs to ...
A: I would suggest hiring a good wedding coordinator to assist you. Planning this sort of event is the ...
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| Wedding Officiant Attire | 8/4/2007 |
Q: I will be attending a 3 pm wedding next week, and the week after that I will be officiating at my ...
A: Sharon, For the 3pm wedding, as a guest, I would suggest a nice suit, where you could remove the ...
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| Wedding Guest Attire | 8/3/2007 |
Q: My husband's sister is getting married and her colors are black and pink. Her bridesmaids will be ...
A: Your dress sounds beautiful,and yes, it would be appropriate. I would, however, run it by the bride ...
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| Lost On Lists | 8/1/2007 |
Q: I have been trying to put together a list of all the different names of people involved in a wedding ...
A: I'll be happy to assist you! Grandparents of the bride Grandparents of the groom Parents of the ...
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| Post Wedding Reception | 7/26/2007 |
Q: My son is getting married in Sept. 2008. Our family lives in the Chicago area. His fiance lives in ...
A: I'd recommend you send your invitations about 4 weeks out. (Since the wedding invitations should be ...
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| guatemalan arras tradition | 7/23/2007 |
Q: My fiance is guatemalan and I would like to incorporate the "arras" custom in our ceremony. This is ...
A: In Latin culture the groom gives his bride a gift of 13 coins, or arras, representing Jesus and his ...
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| 2 tricky situations with my private wedding | 7/22/2007 |
Q: My fiance and I are going to be married in a private ceremony in September then go on a weekend ...
A: 1. No this isn't too far out there. In fact it's a very good idea. If your family and friends are ...
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| Wedding Etiquette | 7/20/2007 |
Q: Who should be walked down the aisle first, the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom? Thank ...
A: For the processional, the groom's mother goes in first and bride's mother is the last person seated ...
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| Black tie wedding? | 7/20/2007 |
Q: Please help!, I have told my guests that our wedding is Black tie. Our wedding starts at 3pm over ...
A: Don't worry. Your guests should come dressed for the eveing. They don't need to bring a change of ...
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| SDA wedding entertainment | 7/17/2007 |
Q: I am a seventh-day Adventist and my family is as well. My fiancee is going to be baptized before the ...
A: You could hire a good,clean,family friendy comedian, Think about some of the things you enjoy. If ...
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| SDA wedding entertainment | 7/17/2007 |
Q: I am a seventh-day Adventist and my family is as well. My fiancee is going to be baptized before the ...
A: I can certainly understand your delima! Having a "non-alcohol" and no-dancing party can be a little ...
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| Etiquette for son's second marriage | 7/14/2007 |
Q: My stepson is getting married for the second time; his bride the first. Stepson is 34. My husband, ...
A: There's nothing that says a parent has to attend a child's wedding. However, it is a way to show ...
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| Norwegian Bridal Shower | 7/8/2007 |
Q: I am hosting a shower for my niece. Our heritage is strongly Norwegian. I have a Norwegian brunch ...
A: Are you familiar with Rosemaling? If you can draw or have someone who is adapt at this do one it ...
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| My perfect wedding dress.. | 7/4/2007 |
Q: I recently found my dream dress searching Google images. However, when I went back to get the link ...
A: I will certainly be happy to try to help, but can't promise I'll find it. You can email me at ...
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| Norwegian Bridal Shower | 7/2/2007 |
Q: I am hosting a shower for my niece. Our heritage is strongly Norwegian. I have a Norwegian brunch ...
A: Here are some things you may like to incorporate into the shower. While this is generally worn for ...
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| Wedding gown bag | 7/1/2007 |
Q: Is it okay to store a wedding dress in a garment bag for 3 months (until the wedding day)? What ...
A: If you are interested in the 100% cotton, go to www.heritagegown.com or call 707-746-6300. If you ...
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| Grooms Mother Does Not Want Current Wife To walk down the Aisle | 7/1/2007 |
Q: My son is getting married. He does not get along with my ex's wife of 7 years. In fact, she is ...
A: The problem with weddings is that they bring out the best and the worst in people. My first ...
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| My color of my dress doesnt seem to go with my theme i want is that ok.. | 6/30/2007 |
Q: .. I was wondering my dress is white and a champane color and i wanted to do a fall wedding Will ...
A: White and Champagne work beautifully together. Your bridesmaids could wear champagne or even brown, ...
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| WEDDING GIFTS FOR BOSS | 6/28/2007 |
Q: There are 3 of us in the office and our Boss (he) is getting married. Its just a business ...
A: If there are 3 of you besides your boss, I'd recommend going together and getting a nice gift from ...
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| Wedding gown bag | 6/27/2007 |
Q: Is it okay to store a wedding dress in a garment bag for 3 months (until the wedding day)? What ...
A: If you are storing your own dress, hang it on a "shoulder size" cotton padded hanger and stuff the ...
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| wedding banns | 6/24/2007 |
Q: is it necessary in canon law that wedding banns should be made on the place of baptism for each ...
A: Here is what I found regarding banns: Marriage Banns - The banns will be published automatically ...
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| wedding etiquitte | 6/20/2007 |
Q: If a bridesmaid is young and singel and has no significant other, would it be alright to send her a ...
A: Absolutely! The bridesmaids are supposed to be there for you on your wedding day. If she were to ...
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| money tree at a vow renewal | 6/15/2007 |
Q: How appropriate is it, if it is at all to have a money tree at a vow renewal reception? (10th ...
A: I'm personally not a big fan of money trees. This suggests you are asking for a gift of money and ...
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| guest at a British wedding | 6/14/2007 |
Q: I (an American 29-year-old)am attending a 'semi-formal' 5 pm wedding in a castle in the U.K. with my ...
A: Your dress sounds darling! Since the wedding is after 5pm,it should be fine. As for a hat, they ...
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| Norwegian blessing | 6/9/2007 |
Q: What are a few good Norwegian wedding blessings, both in English and Norwegian? This could be ...
A: Here is one website that may be of interest. While it's mainly for vows, it should include some ...
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| Wedding Colors | 6/8/2007 |
Q: My wedding is in August. I want to do black/white for the basic colors but with a splash of ...
A: I don't really think shorts are appropriate. How about nice white slacks. Check out Dockers for ...
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| rehersal dinners | 6/6/2007 |
Q: I am the mother of the groom and I need to know whom to invite to the rehersal dinner. Help!
A: Generally the people invited to the rehearsal dinner are: The wedding party along with their ...
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| About the ceremony | 6/6/2007 |
Q: I live in Arkansas, and would like to know if there is a way I can have a friend of mine get the ...
A: Here is the website for the Universal Life Church, where your friend can become ordained. I would ...
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| Customary Monitary Pastoral Fees | 6/6/2007 |
Q: We are planning to have a simple, short ceremony in our local church and were wondering what is the ...
A: First, check with the church secretary and see if there's a set amount that he may receive. If ...
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| Bride's shoes | 6/6/2007 |
Q: my wedding dress is champagne and I was wondering what would be a suitable color of shoes to wear? ...
A: Your dress sounds beautiful! If you can match the champagne, this is the route I'd go. Remember, ...
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| Self invited guests | 6/5/2007 |
Q: We are planning to have a medium sized wedding and have already sent out invitations for up to 120 ...
A: IT is amazing how many people will do this. Don't give in. You just need to smile and let them ...
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| Wedding shower & Wedding invitations | 6/4/2007 |
Q: My son is getting married 100 miles away. They want a small wedding with only close friends and ...
A: You don't want to invite people to a shower unless they are invited to the wedding. Partly because ...
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| shower | 6/3/2007 |
Q: My son is getting married in Europe where he and his wife will live after the wedding, he has been ...
A: As a rule, close family members don't usually host showers because it looks like they are trying to ...
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| Ceremony Only Invites | 6/3/2007 |
Q: I need some help. My fiance and I attend 2 very large, lets say mega churches. Our reception ...
A: You actually need to send different invitations. One will be to the ceremony only with a notation ...
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| Wedding Program Wording | 6/2/2007 |
Q: My fiance would like three different categories for his side of the bridal party: the best man, ...
A: How about putting them both as "Best Men". When I have this with the women I recommend using "Honor ...
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| wedding gift etiquette | 5/31/2007 |
Q: I am attending my friend's wedding on Saturday, and my mother and I were thinking of giving money as ...
A: There is no set amount to give, it basically depends on your financial circumstances as well as how ...
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| Uninvited Wedding Guest (Perhaps Me) | 5/31/2007 |
Q: I have become aware that a woman I was once involved with is getting married. As I am substantially ...
A: While you may have had a relationship once, it's over now. It would be very improper for you to ...
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| bride and groom live in England | 5/26/2007 |
Q: I am giving a bridal shower for my daughter's best friend. She lives in England and will be back ...
A: If the bride's friends are aware that she lives in England, they should be sensitive to the fact of ...
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| Wedding Questions | 5/17/2007 |
Q: I have a few weddings questions to ask.. First one, When shopping for my gown, i have been shopping ...
A: First of all - be very careful shopping on line for a wedding dress. The problem is once you've ...
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| 20 mismatching groomsmen | 5/16/2007 |
Q: So we're just beginning the wedding planning and my fiance has a lot of friends and he's in the ...
A: While it may appear to be a large number, I'd have them stand in a line, out from you and the groom. ...
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| 20 mismatching groomsmen | 5/15/2007 |
Q: So we're just beginning the wedding planning and my fiance has a lot of friends and he's in the ...
A: You are fortunate to have someone who has so many friends! However, it does cause complications ...
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| Rehearsal Dinner | 5/14/2007 |
Q: My sister is getting married in about 1 1/2 months. We were speaking recently when she asked if my ...
A: WOW! I find this so hard to believe that your sister would have such an oversight! Rule of thumb ...
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| bridal shower invite | 5/11/2007 |
Q: The bride I am throwing a shower for only has a small wedding registry since her and her finance ...
A: There isn't a polite way to ask for money. In fact this is something that should be expressed word ...
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| unwanted guest | 5/11/2007 |
Q: My fiance and I are getting married soon and we were only inviting our immediate family so all ...
A: This is a really tough situation. Since the invitation has already been extended, you really can't ...
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| Thank you etiquette | 5/9/2007 |
Q: We have requested that we not be given any wedding gifts. Many of our guests are financially ...
A: It's a great idea to say thank you to your guests for coming. It can be as simple as "Thank you for ...
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| Wedding Colors | 5/5/2007 |
Q: I'm planning my wedding for either Feb. or March 2008. I'm so confused about the colors for my ...
A: You are kind of between the "Jewel tones" and the "Pastels". Think about the colors of spring. ...
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| Gift to foreign friend | 5/4/2007 |
Q: I met my friend 7 years ago. I am from the states, he from Ireland. After three years here in the ...
A: What a wonderful story! It's great you have kept in touch. As for crystal, there is no set gift ...
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| Wedding Gift Dilemma | 5/3/2007 |
Q: We think we may or may not be missing gift envelopes from some of the guests. Not all the guests ...
A: This is really a tough delima. What I'd recommend is that you write these guests a thank you for ...
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| Uninvited guest | 4/30/2007 |
Q: My mother-in-law and her sister are arguing over who they should invite to my step-daughters wedding ...
A: If I'm reading this right, it's the bride's grandmother who is trying to invite a guest. You are ...
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| Father performing ceremony | 4/27/2007 |
Q: My daughter is getting married in August and my husband will be performing the ceremony. Do you ...
A: Here's a couple of good books that will help put the ceremony together the way the couple would like ...
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| What is a rendezvous in wedding terminology? | 4/27/2007 |
Q: I am a batchelor farmer. I have been somewhat curious about something ever since it happened a ...
A: Unfortunately, I, like yourself, have not heard this term before exept when used as a meeting place ...
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| Tuxedo color | 4/26/2007 |
Q: My wedding is in Nov. and my bridemaids dresses are burnt orange. What color tux should I use. ...
A: You don't want to get to many colors going. I would think that black tuxes with burnt orange ...
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| Surprise wedding reception | 4/24/2007 |
Q: My brother-in-law recently got married while on a cruise. We would like to host a small party to ...
A: In this case, I would word it Tom and Sharon Smith and Mrs. Elizabeth Smith invite you to join us ...
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| Surprise wedding reception | 4/24/2007 |
Q: My brother-in-law recently got married while on a cruise. We would like to host a small party to ...
A: I'd word your invitation something like: Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Jay Smith (you) request the pleasure ...
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| shower etiquette | 4/24/2007 |
Q: This may be out of your expertise, but I thought I would ask. I'm maid of honor for my friends ...
A: This is way out of line! The guest list for a shower is generally only close friends and family. ...
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| No Unity Candle | 4/23/2007 |
Q: My fiance and I decided early on in the planning of our wedding that we would not have a unity ...
A: I understand your trepidation in talking to your FMIL. What you might do is select a special song ...
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| Deceased Father and Grandfather | 4/20/2007 |
Q: I am getting married in June and my Mom is walking me down the aisle because my Father passed away. ...
A: Your wedding is a day of happiness, and your dad and grandfather will be smiling down on you. What ...
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| Engagement gift from future mother in law | 4/18/2007 |
Q: Within the week that my fiance and I got engaged, my future mother in law sent me a Congratulations ...
A: What a nice gesture! By all means, send a nice note to let her know you received it and how much it ...
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| justice of the peace state transfer | 4/18/2007 |
Q: My fiance's uncle is a justice of the peace in MA. We would like to have him perform our ceremony ...
A: What you could do is have a Rabbi or pastor as part of the ceremony, but have your finace's uncle do ...
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| Wow - Weddings Sure Do Bring Out The Best In People | 4/16/2007 |
Q: I am getting married in May 2007. A year ago, we (discussed what portion of the wedding was to be ...
A: You were totally correct in wording the invitations the way you did. It really isn't that often the ...
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| father of the bride ceremony role | 4/15/2007 |
Q: My question is about the wedding ceremony its self. When does the father of the bride take his ...
A: The way I've generally done this is for your father to walk you in, hand your hand to your groom, ...
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| Adoptive Parent/ Divorced Issues | 4/15/2007 |
Q: My daughter is getting married in September. My big problem is my husband adopted my daughter over ...
A: It sounds to me like she feels a gratitude to her "biological father" for helping out during a very ...
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| Hurt feelings | 4/13/2007 |
Q: My daughter (23) was engaged this January. She announces to me that the wedding is this June. Her ...
A: I totally do agree that they disrespected you- big time. There is no excuse for behaviour like ...
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| Hurt feelings | 4/13/2007 |
Q: My daughter (23) was engaged this January. She announces to me that the wedding is this June. Her ...
A: I certainly don't blame you for feeling bad. This was very thoughtless on your daughter's part. ...
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| how to tell my fiance's brother not to wear uniform | 4/12/2007 |
Q: My fiance's brother is in the air national guard. He is not a groomsmen - just wanted to preface ...
A: This is something that your finance needs to do. He needs to talk to his brother and tell him you'd ...
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| wedding gift | 4/12/2007 |
Q: My brother just "officially" married his live in girlfriend of 8 years(common law wife). They told ...
A: I agree that a gift may be pointless, since they probably already have everything. However, what ...
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| mother of the bride dress | 4/12/2007 |
Q: My daughter is being married in June. The wedding will be after 6 pm outdoors in a garden. The ...
A: Since the wedding is after 6pm and the bride and party will be formal, by all means you'll want to ...
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| a reception | 4/10/2007 |
Q: My son married a woman he met while serving in the Peace Corps in Albania. She will be arriving ...
A: I would word your invitations: Mr. and Mrs. (your names) request the pleasure of your company at ...
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| ANOTHER Divorce invitation question | 4/10/2007 |
Q: My divorced parents (who have both been remarried to others for over 25 years) are co-hosting my ...
A: Good question! Divorce and re-marriage can really cause it's share of headaches when it comes to ...
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| what to wear | 4/9/2007 |
Q: i am getting married in 3weeks time. what would an appropriate to wear on a civil wedding? 30mins ...
A: I would think a nice suit with a cute hat would be appropriate. Look for a white or cream colored ...
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| Matron of Honor Responsibilities | 4/8/2007 |
Q: I have never served as a matron of honor before. My best friend is getting married in three mnths. ...
A: Traditionally these are the duties of the Matron/Maid of Honor: Maid/Matron/Man of Honor Purches ...
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| ceromony music | 4/7/2007 |
Q: My finance wants to sing "Its your love" my tim mccraw with the actual cd playing in the background. ...
A: Is your fiance a professional singer or has he done a lot of performing infront of crowds? If he ...
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| Boyfriend Invitated? | 4/4/2007 |
Q: I just received an invitation to one my friend's wedding. On the envolope it just said my name and ...
A: This is a great question. I would suggest you call the bride and just ask her for clarification. ...
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| responsorial psalms for my ceremony | 4/3/2007 |
Q: hoping someone can help me. My fiance are not super religious, but we have to pick out a ...
A: I'm not sure about a website but here they are: Psalm 28 1-2,3,4-5 Leader: Happy are those who ...
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| Colors | 3/27/2007 |
Q: I want to use a lime green in the wedding. But I do not want my bridesmaids wearing this color. What ...
A: I recently did a wedding where we used line green, orange, yellow and red. The bridesmaids dresses ...
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| Wedding Invitation wording | 3/26/2007 |
Q: my parents are divorced but only my mother is paying for the wedding, she wants her name on the ...
A: Here's what I'd recommend, since your guests don't really need to know who's paying the bill and you ...
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| Wedding Invitation wording | 3/26/2007 |
Q: my parents are divorced but only my mother is paying for the wedding, she wants her name on the ...
A: Another thought would be to put something like: Lisa Marie and Mr. Thomas Dwight Moore joyously ...
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| Attire for mothers of the bride and groom | 3/25/2007 |
Q: My daughter has selected pink and brown as her colors. I have found a dressy pink two piece ants ...
A: Sorry it took me a bit to respond! I think the pantsuit will be fine, especially since you'll ...
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| Attire for mothers of the bride and groom | 3/25/2007 |
Q: My daughter has selected pink and brown as her colors. I have found a dressy pink two piece ants ...
A: First, I'd ask how formal is the wedding? If it's after 5pm then you probably would want to wear a ...
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| Wedding Invitation Wording | 3/21/2007 |
Q: If we are having a cash bar at our wedding reception, do I need to include that on the invitation? ...
A: No, you won't include that in your invitation. Are you going to host any of it? Perhaps if you ...
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| Bachelorette Party | 3/19/2007 |
Q: Help! I'm 25yr old maid of honor for my friend, and am planning the Bachelorette Party w/5 ...
A: You've made a hugh step by admitting to yourself that you turned off some of the other bridesmaids. ...
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| Wedding Customs, Traditions And Handling Situations as they arise | 3/19/2007 |
Q: Please tell me all there is to know about Wedding Customs, Traditions And Handling Situations as ...
A: This is a question that is way to long to answer here. However, I'd recommend you get the book "A ...
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| Too many people to give me away | 3/15/2007 |
Q: Help! My parents are divorced and my father was absent from my life until two years ago. My mother ...
A: One way is to have your father walk you a third of the way, pass you off to your step-dad (or other ...
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| Attire | 3/12/2007 |
Q: My son is getting married in December. I haven't worn a dress in years and would like to wear ...
A: What is the bride's mother wearing? You'll have to find that out then check with the bride to see ...
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| Invitations | 3/12/2007 |
Q: My wedding is being hosted by my fiancee and myself, my parents, his father and stepmother ...
A: THis is a great way to address your question. Another way would be to say "together with their ...
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| guest-wear etiquette | 3/9/2007 |
Q: i'm invited to my boyfriend's friend's wedding in May. I have this beautiful white dress that I ...
A: Unless the wedding is specifically black and white and guests are requested to wear white, then no. ...
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| wedding colors | 3/7/2007 |
Q: I could not access the site you reccommended are there any others? Really want two blues. Can you ...
A: Would you consider something like the blue/purple in Japanese Iris or Delphinium or Hydrangea. ...
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| wedding colors | 3/7/2007 |
Q: I am trying to pick wedding colors. Would like to use two shades of blue. I am getting married in ...
A: This is a great tool to help you visualize colors together: http://lerheebows.com/color_picker.html ...
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| Groomsman tux or military uniform? | 3/2/2007 |
Q: My fiance's brother recently joined the Air Force, and I expect will want to wear his formal ...
A: Your fiance's brother may certainly wear his dress uniform. He can stand wherever you'd like him ...
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| Please HELP!!! | 2/17/2007 |
Q: I just recently got engaged and we have set our wedding date for September 5th. I am clueless about ...
A: Your date is wonderful as you can certainly utilize the colors you want, however, what I'd recommend ...
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| How to word? | 2/15/2007 |
Q: Me and my fiancé are getting married in a hot air balloon and having only our immediate family at ...
A: The way I would do is would be to select an invitation that has your verse on the front of it. Then ...
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| renewing vowes | 2/12/2007 |
Q: my husband and i were married in front of a judge had no reception and never went on a honeymoon. i ...
A: There's no set time on how long you should wait before renewing your vows. Generally people choose ...
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| mother of the bride | 2/6/2007 |
Q: I am a 41 yr old widow. My daughter is to be married in june and her uncle, my brother is to escort ...
A: You can handle this in a couple of ways. One of the ushers can bring you in, the groom might want ...
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| Songs to dance to | 2/5/2007 |
Q: My father died two years ago, I am getting married in June and I have no idea what song to dance to ...
A: How about something like "That's Amore" sung by Dean Martin; "Wind Beneith My Wings", "You are my ...
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| Inexpensive Wedding Fast | 2/2/2007 |
Q: I am sure you get asked this question a lot. I need an inexpensive wedding fast. My fiance’ and I ...
A: Check out churches in the area who may have a chapel. Ask the pastor/minister if they will marry ...
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| what to wear | 2/1/2007 |
Q: I am attending a wedding in Capetown - South AFrica at end Of March. Dont know what to wear. I am 5 ...
A: The avg. temperature should be around 79 degrees. The humidity around 58 percent. I would recommend ...
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| Groomsmen gifts | 1/30/2007 |
Q: We are getting married in March and are looking for some gifts for our groomsmen to give to them at ...
A: There's nothing that says all the gifts have to be the same. You could do nice pens with their ...
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| wedding rings | 1/30/2007 |
Q: My niece is getting married soon. Her and her fiance don't have alot of money but they've been ...
A: Personally I think it's a very generous offer. However, part of being married is working together ...
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| Deceased Father - Father Daughter Dance | 1/27/2007 |
Q: My sister is getting married in June and she would like to honor our father who passed away 3 years ...
A: Is your sister sure she wants to do this? I'm only asking because it could prove to be extremely ...
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| Second wedding reception | 1/21/2007 |
Q: My Fiancee and I are getting married in Disneyland, we plan on having our reception there at a ...
A: Anymore, a second wedding is not much different from the first, except that the bride doesn't wear a ...
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| Wedding rehearsal ediquete | 1/17/2007 |
Q: Who all is invited to the rehersal dinner? Does this include out of town guest to the wedding? Does ...
A: Traditionally the rehearsal dinner was for those in the wedding party and immediate family. This ...
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| hurting people feelings | 1/17/2007 |
Q: Me and my fiance we want a small casual wedding by the beach, we dont have a big budget so we dont ...
A: There's a couple of ways to handle this. You can have a small wedding by the beach, invite just the ...
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| Father of Bride 3rd wife | 1/10/2007 |
Q: My oldest daughter was married in July of 2003 and her Dad got married in January 2003 to a woman ...
A: This is a hard one. First, you need to let "Dad" know that it's hurtful to his daughter to be ...
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| bridal show | 1/9/2007 |
Q: I will be attending some bridal shows soon an would like to know if it is really a good deal to take ...
A: When I work with clients, I recommend they look at 3 different vendors in any category. This way ...
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| save the dates and seating - help! | 1/9/2007 |
Q: My fiance and I weren't planning to send save-the-date cards due to the extra expense, but we will ...
A: Save the date notices should be sent about 6 months prior to the wedding. This is done so people ...
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| Wedding gift or not? | 1/7/2007 |
Q: We had a telephone invitation to a wedding reception from a good friend who is marrying for the ...
A: A gift is never required for a wedding, but is a way of celebrating with the couple. Considering ...
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| Wedding problem | 1/6/2007 |
Q: ------------------------------------------- Hello, I have another question for you. On my son's ...
A: Generally the bride's parents are listed first if they are hosting the wedding: Mr. and Mrs. Andrew ...
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| Wedding Gift | 1/4/2007 |
Q: We are getting married and the guest list is 90% Italian on my future husbands side. My family is ...
A: This is always a difficult situation, especially if two households are combined and nothing is ...
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| low budget? | 1/4/2007 |
Q: i was hoping to get help with wedding ideas on a 2000 budget. I just wanted to know some ideas for ...
A: There are several things you can do to cut your budget, but still have a nice wedding. These are ...
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| dress attire | 12/28/2006 |
Q: my husband and i have been invited to a 4pm wedding and 7pm reception on new years eve in newport, ...
A: If the invitation stated "Black Tie" then you want the floor length dress. If it didn't specify ...
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| Invitation recognition | 12/28/2006 |
Q: My dilemma is that the father of the bride will be paying the majority of the wedding with his new ...
A: These are always hard questions. You don't want to offend anyone so this is what I recommend: ...
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| situation regarding old friend | 12/26/2006 |
Q: I have a friend of 20 years' duration that I still like to keep in touch with, but she does not make ...
A: You are wise to have made this decision. People do grow apart over the years, but it's ...
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| Rehearsal dinner | 12/22/2006 |
Q: Who are the appropriate persons at the rehearsal dinner?
A: This really depends on who you want. It used to be that the rehearsal dinner was for the wedding ...
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| Colours to go with a champagne dress??? | 12/21/2006 |
Q: I have ordered my wedding dress (champagne raw silk) but I am now in a dilema about my colour ...
A: Your dress sounds beautiful. I think it will depend on the color of orange. What I'd suggest, is ...
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| Wedding problem | 12/20/2006 |
Q: My son is an American who lives in Thailand and marrying a Thai young woman. He has had problems ...
A: This is a good question. It isn't proper to include anything that says "send money" in the ...
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| Honoring my In Laws | 12/18/2006 |
Q: My Fiance and me are getting married on the same day as my in laws wedding anniversary. I want to ...
A: How thoughtful! During the reception, you could surprise them by having their "first dance" song ...
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| Church Wedding | 12/13/2006 |
Q: I am Catholic and my fiance is Baptist, is there any way to still get married in a church?
A: There are many churches that you can get married in and welcome "mixed" marriages. Just call and ...
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| stepfather | 12/13/2006 |
Q: My father died 15 years ago and my mother recently remarried. I don't know why as she was getting ...
A: I'm not a therapist, but it would appear there are more issues going on here. Could it be possible ...
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| where to have ceremony | 12/12/2006 |
Q: my wedding is Feb. 24,2007. The venue I am using has two options for where to have the ceremony. One ...
A: I'd get married where you like it the best, in the glass pavilion. Talk to your caterer to see if ...
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| Financial protocol | 12/11/2006 |
Q: I am divorced, but remarried. What am I expected to pay for with respect to my daughter's wedding?
A: What children forget is that a wedding is a gift not a requirement! I would say sit down with her ...
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| Time between ceremony and reception | 12/10/2006 |
Q: My fiancee and I have scheduled a 3 o'clock wedding with a cocktail hour beginning at 5:30. Lately ...
A: I don't think so. I've done weddings at 10am and had the reception at 6pm. If possible, have a ...
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| Engagement Party | 12/8/2006 |
Q: We have been engaged since July 13 2006 but the wedding isn't until May 23 2008 I've read to have ...
A: An engagement party is just that-- an opportunity to let family and friends know that you are ...
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| father/daughter dance | 12/5/2006 |
Q: My brother is getting married, and his fiancee has asked me, as a bridesmaid, to help her solve her ...
A: It's wonderful that she has a good relationship with both and wants to honor them both. I agree ...
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| bridal shower | 12/5/2006 |
Q: my sister and brother are getting married a couple of months apart and I wanted to throw my sister ...
A: While it seems like a great idea, I'd suggest doing each one separately. Mainly because each will ...
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| Black Tie Event | 12/4/2006 |
Q: I've searched online about what I should be wearing for a black tie gala. I'm volunteering and I ...
A: Black Tie actually refers to the men wearing tuxes. The dress for women is usually a floor length ...
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| Belated wedding reception | 12/1/2006 |
Q: My husband and I were married in Mexico earlier this year. We could not afford a state-side ...
A: It's generally accepted that wedding gifts can be sent up to 1 year, so I would say that before your ...
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| Wedding Question | 11/28/2006 |
Q: I did it for financial reasons because I did not want to have my parents spend so much. I also did ...
A: Whether you will be having the baby before the wedding, you'll want your married name reflected on ...
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| Wedding Question | 11/28/2006 |
Q: Me and My Fiance Eloped in Vegas Last Week Wedsenday. I have not told my parents yet? How should I ...
A: First, tell your folks you are already married. Tell them why you jumped ahead. Was it because you ...
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| Wedding Reception | 11/27/2006 |
Q: I will be getting married on a Monday and to save money we will be having a ceremony with only ...
A: It's hard enough to plan a wedding when everyone does get along! You should send invitations only ...
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| Rehearsal Dinner Invites | 11/26/2006 |
Q: I'm sorry if this sounds like a silly question, but can you tell me if we should be sending out ...
A: THis is not a silly question. If people other than the wedding party and immediate family are to ...
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| Church Wedding Sites | 11/25/2006 |
Q: Your answer has been very helpful. I am from West Los Angeles and it has been very hard for us to ...
A: Take a look at these. This should get you started. Let me know if I can be of any further ...
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| Church Wedding Sites | 11/25/2006 |
Q: My fiance and I decided to have our wedding in a Catholic church. However, they require us to ...
A: A lot depends on where you are located. I do have a priest who will marry you, outside the church ...
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| Rehersal dinner | 11/22/2006 |
Q: My daughter is getting married Dec. 10 in Georgia. We live in Texas. My family including her fiancee ...
A: As hard as it may be, it seems like "family" never seem to understand that "no children" includes ...
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| Too many bridesmaids | 11/19/2006 |
Q: Im in the worst situation, I wasn't expecting to get married my fiance had given no clues and i was ...
A: Your delimma is one that many brides have. I actually have a page on my website addressing ...
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| Wedding reception | 11/18/2006 |
Q: After our return from our destination wedding in Jamaica, we are having a reception. Is it ok to ...
A: Absolutely! Your quests will love to see you in your dress. You can do your reception just as if ...
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| wedding invites | 11/15/2006 |
Q: My wedding in Feb 24 the RSVP date is Feb 1. I was thinking of sending the invitations the first ...
A: I always worry about invitations getting lost in the Christmas mail. I think I'd be inclined to ...
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| wedding | 11/14/2006 |
Q: hi my name is lourie and i will be getting married very soon and its my first time and i am very ...
A: Planning a wedding can be very scary, especially when you start looking at the budget. However, it ...
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| September wedding colors | 11/14/2006 |
Q: I am looking for some good ideas for September colors for my wedding. I love this one color that is ...
A: September is a month where you can really use some of the deep, rich colors. Consider combining the ...
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| getting out of a wedding party | 11/10/2006 |
Q: My roommate is getting married next summer and she asked me if I would be a bridesmaid. I was very ...
A: You have hit on something that I'm always "preaching" about, that is for bride's to think before ...
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| help!! | 11/8/2006 |
Q: ok my boyfriends sisters wedding is this saturday and her director is in the hospital so one thing ...
A: I'll be happy to help you. You need to put together a timeline - then follow it. Start by making ...
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| Wedding Church Requirements | 11/7/2006 |
Q: I am planning to have my Church wedding next year in the Philippines. I am currently living here in ...
A: Will this be a Catholic wedding? I'll see what I can find out for you. It probably will be ...
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| winter white to a wedding | 11/7/2006 |
Q: I will be attending a 3:00 wedding on the eve before New Years Eve. I have an outfit that I would ...
A: As a rule, you don't want to wear white because that's what the bride wears. However, since your ...
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| Wedding Colors | 11/6/2006 |
Q: I am getting married at a Beach Club overlooking the ocean, but not actually on the beach, in ...
A: Please forgive my being late getting back, but I copied off your question to work on yesterday then ...
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| parents of bride wanting to plan entire wedding | 11/6/2006 |
Q: the parents of our future daughter-in-law are making arrangements, planning, deciding on the entire ...
A: What it sounds to me like, is that the mother is vicariously having a wedding through her daughter. ...
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| Wedding tradition | 11/5/2006 |
Q: Could you please tell me where the phrase: 'to tie the knot' comes from and what it means
A: Tying the Knot, dates back as far as mankind. It's believed that early man and woman, bound ...
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| step fathers | 10/25/2006 |
Q: my step father raised me and biological father was present very little. I'd like my step father to ...
A: When my daughter got married, her step-dad and I walked her in and her biological father came only ...
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| wedding consulting | 10/22/2006 |
Q: i recently opened my own consulting bussiness and have been telling people word of mouth and also ...
A: Good Morning! First, I need to ask if you've had any training. If not, I'd highly recommend you ...
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| Hotel fees for groomsmen | 10/17/2006 |
Q: Are groomsmen responsible for their hotel room fees if the wedding is outside their local area? If ...
A: As a rule, the groomsmen and bridesmaids are responsible for their own travel expenses including the ...
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| what to wear to a November wedding on a budget | 10/11/2006 |
Q: I am going to a wedding November 24 (the day after Thanksgiving) and I have no idea what to wear. ...
A: Since the wedding is at 4 and the reception will be after 5 this means it will be more formal. ...
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| Current and Ex-Wife Wedding Attendance | 10/8/2006 |
Q: What are the rules of etiquette concerning a current and an ex-wife? My husband's son is getting ...
A: You are very gracious in asking this question. Being a step-parent myself, I understand totally ...
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| How to Choose Maid/Matron of Honor | 10/8/2006 |
Q: I have 8 people I am considering asking to be in my bridal party for my October 2007 wedding. ...
A: First, in selecting your attendants, be sure they understand and can afford the obligation such as ...
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| Over opinionated mother | 10/4/2006 |
Q: I have recently got engaged and I am having trouble with my own mother. My partner and I had planned ...
A: A couple of things to remember when getting into the wedding planning mode is everyone has an ...
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| flowergirl/ring bearer | 10/2/2006 |
Q: Do you any suggestion of what they can carry the leaves in? Please helpMy flower girl back out on ...
A: I think a nice dark, wicker basket (a size that the child can easily carry)would be very ...
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| flowergirl/ring bearer | 10/2/2006 |
Q: My flower girl back out on us. My wedding is in 6 six. I have two nephew at are going to be ring ...
A: That would be a great idea. This way they each have something different to do. If the boys are ...
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| Bridesmaid dress costs | 10/1/2006 |
Q: Tina, my step-daughter called off her wedding 3 months prior to the date, because she found out her ...
A: As a rule, when a friend is asked to participate as an attendant, they need to understand the ...
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| Cocktail Reception Plan | 9/28/2006 |
Q: I'm considering a cocktail wedding reception instead of a more formal dinner but was wondering what ...
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