Expert: Celina White - 3/11/2006

Question
Hello, I've (18) been in a relationship with a guy for almost two years. It's been happy most of the time. A few months ago, I made a huge mistake of telling my boyfriend how much I would love to be with another woman. (I've wanted to be with another woman since I was a preteen.) Well, now my boyfriend (21) is absolutely and completely obsessed with the idea. He can't seem to get it off his mind, and he's wanting to have one with an ex friend/chick he felt up. He told me almost a year ago how much he wish he could have screwed her. He supposedly has this thing for plus size chicks. I'm not too large, but I'm considered plus, but this chick, eww, she's so fat! She literally has rings! He constantly tells me anywhere, and I mean anywhere how much he wants to watch me "eat another girl's pussy." I was really thinking about it, but now I don't want to. I want a threesome, minus him, with another woman. Also, a side question. Why does my boyfriend say he supposedly loves plus sized chicks, but all his porno is skinny girls, all of his pictures are skinny girls, and every chick he gets a "crush" on is skinny including celebrities? I'm insecure around him with my body any more too. I can't stand it when he touches my belly or my thighs or my butt because I feel like I'm not skinny enough. Any advice would be helpful.  

Answer
hello,

it seems u indeed made a mistake by telling,its not unusal for a girl to with a girl...normally a 3-sum is a great idea provided you like both person....your b/f seems to have some inclination a have sex with other girls with your seemingly approval...i am not sure how would he react if you tell him that you want a 3-sum with two guys......guys are like that they have different standards for themelves....if you donn't like his touch then why are you continuing with him....just dump him, i'm sure you deserve better guy
..many girls like the idea of a 3-sum but with out their current partner...it gives a new flip to your sex life...everyone wants a change...new partners give new ideas and new 'high' to sex life.
...your b/f sure has a sense of insecurity about himself...he wants a plump girl but is not sure if he can satify her or manage her.
...for you it would be better to say 'bye' to him and look for some one more secure and mature.

celina