| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Can a man love another woman as if she is his sister?!? | 11/19/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: My spouse is living in another country and I'm going to be with him soon. It's about 2 yrs that our ...
A: Well, tell her that men know what other men go through and you can see what's in his eyes. Because ...
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| bickering...? | 11/17/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: So me and my bf have been together for 6 months now, things are going good, however lately we have ...
A: Prevention is the best medicine. Communicate openly and often about various topics BEFORE they ...
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| feelings for ex girlfriend | 11/13/2009 | Vani |
Q: What should i do about my feelings for my ex girlfriend? we broke a couple of years now and we both ...
A: It's normal to compare her with your other relations and realize that she was far better. The fact ...
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| Don't know what to do | 11/11/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: I am 36 yrs of age, and I have been in a serious relation ship for 3 months now with a 30 yr old ...
A: I'm sure she was hurt by you giving her an excuse and not talking to her. She may be so hurt that ...
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| Step mom | 11/6/2009 | Vani |
Q: Okay so me and my step mom are having MAJOR problems and I'm so sick of her yelling at me every ...
A: Why don't you talk to your Dad - a heart to heart chat - when she is not around and when he is in a ...
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| bad times | 11/3/2009 | Vani |
Q: ok i been wit my boyfriend for 6 months now i love him so much but it seem like he don't feel the ...
A: Does he trust you, care for you and respect you as an individual? If yes, don't pay attention to the ...
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| I dont think I wil ever forgive my mom enough to let her back into my life?? NEED GUIDANCE PLEASE! | 11/2/2009 | Vani |
Q: I am not sure where to begin with this, because for you to completely understand my unforgiving ways ...
A: There is no need to feel guilty for anything related to her, you have done your best. Keep your kids ...
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| Arguments | 10/27/2009 | Vani |
Q: My husband and I have been married for a little over a year now, and we've been fighting since we ...
A: He wanted the honeymoon to be picture perfect but it wasn't, he is incapable of handling any ...
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| we cant seem to get along anymore. | 10/26/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: Me and my fiance have been together for afew years and it seems that all we do is fight over ...
A: Something must be aggravating him. It's probably no the little things you described in your letter ...
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| lies, how to forgive | 10/25/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: my b/f of 10 yrs (we had planned to marry wedding was put off due to parents being ill) lied about ...
A: "based on the person he is" ....He lied and only apologized because he was sorry that he got caught. ...
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| how can I forgive my mom? | 10/25/2009 | Vani |
Q: I lived on my own since I was 18, I am 21 now. my mom moved in with me because my ex boyfriend ...
A: People who don't keep pets can't fathom the love you have for your cats. Am sorry that you can't ...
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| long distance relationship in trouble | 10/21/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. We are both 19 but I'm a older. He lives ...
A: Are you sure he is not working? How does he pay his expenses, party and spend time with friends and ...
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| long distance relationship in trouble | 10/21/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. We are both 19 but I'm a older. He lives ...
A: Maybe the two of you can make some rules for this discussion. For instance, a rule could be that ...
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| long distance relationship in trouble | 10/20/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. We are both 19 but I'm a older. He lives ...
A: It seems he knows what is going wrong in the relationship. That makes me wonder why you don't know ...
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| relationship issues | 10/15/2009 | Vani |
Q: would like to ask how to deal with longdistance relationship..been with my boyfriend for over 2 ...
A: Long distance relationships put a lot of strain on people as you are always communicating via a ...
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| Resolving conflict | 10/10/2009 | Vani |
Q: My girlfriend and I agreed that I would write to an online expert with advice on how to resolve ...
A: You guys are leading a normal life, not with the armed forces where a subordinate can't use certain ...
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| boyfriend trouble | 9/24/2009 | Vani |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating for three years now. i am going to college four hours away from ...
A: It's the distance that's making you both so short tempered that you get into arguments. You would ...
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| Stress and Anxiety are Ruining my Relationship!! | 9/17/2009 | Vani |
Q: I am a 23 year old graduate student and i've been with my bf for about a 1 1/2. We've always had our ...
A: He is still in love with you and cares for you. As you rightly pointed out, these emotional ...
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| About my "Comfort Level" | 9/13/2009 | Vani |
Q: I'm currently dating a guy who lives in Canada and I live in the US. We've gotten to know each other ...
A: If you are not comfortable doing something and he does not respect your feelings, this is not the ...
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| Sister hates my gf | 9/11/2009 | Vani |
Q: Hey im 22 years old my gf is 21. recently my gf had twins. since im studying to become a doctor i ...
A: One reason could be that she is too attached to you and sees this new addition to the family as a ...
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| 4 years then he just goes missing?? | 9/4/2009 | Vani |
Q: Now in that time when there has been an issue come up once in awhile mostly when hes been out ...
A: Hope things have fallen in place now!! In my opinion, he is using this 'running away' bit too much ...
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| the arguments never stop | 9/1/2009 | Vani |
Q: me && my boyfriend peter are 18 && have been dating for almost 9 months now.he really loves me I ...
A: Normally arguments happen when you give importance to petty things, take things to heart too soon, ...
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| I don't know how to deal with my daughter | 8/25/2009 | Vani |
Q: My daughter has a child with a person whom is in & out of her life, has nothing to do with my ...
A: She is happy being miserable and there is nothing which can convince her to divorce this man, till ...
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| I'm so exhausted - should we end this up? | 8/23/2009 | Vani |
Q: Sorry for long e-mail! This is cutting me to pieces! I'm with this guy for a year and a half. We're ...
A: Marrying now is out of question till you can be sure that there is some common point left between ...
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| advice | 8/21/2009 | Vani |
Q: Is it right to eat up my pride?all i wanted is for him also to feel what i felt for the things he ...
A: Belated Anniversary Wishes !!! Am sure, things are perfect now. He said things that he regrets, he ...
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| Trust | 8/19/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: My fiance finds it suspicious when Other guys are around me. My brother's best friend comes and ...
A: Trust is something earned over time. If you have been trustworthy all along, then there is nothing ...
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| conditions? | 8/14/2009 | Vani |
Q: I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We are happy and very much so in ...
A: Just ignore this comment as a nasty one when he is off mood. Quite likely he saw a woman who was ...
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| is it worth it? | 8/7/2009 | Anisa |
Q: SORRY THIS IS GOING TO BE LONG!! so basically i have known this guy for 4 years and we dated 3 years ...
A: In order to be in a happy, healthy relationship, you would have to trust each other 100%. Without ...
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| My past is catching up to me | 8/6/2009 | Vani |
Q: "Hi, My bf and I have been together over 4 months but I have known him since birth. Our moms have ...
A: It will not just erase from his memory, it will take time. Best way out is not to talk about it at ...
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| fiance' left in the middle of the night | 8/4/2009 | Anisa |
Q: I am writing because I am completely torn up inside, and am really not sure what to do. The other ...
A: You are NOT being selfish by giving up. Your fiance (ex) has put you through a continuous vicious ...
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| Frequent Petty Arguments | 8/3/2009 | Anisa |
Q: I have been dating a woman that I am totally in love with for 7 months. I moved into her place and ...
A: The feelings that she is not in love with you may have been present for a while; the arguments ...
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| mixed messages | 8/1/2009 | Anisa |
Q: My boyfriend and I have taken a step further into the relationship. Recently, I lost my virginity to ...
A: I'm sorry but your boyfriend sounds like a jerk. He is being completely inconsiderate of your ...
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| Separate Vacations tearing us up! What do we do? | 7/29/2009 | Vani |
Q: My life partner of 4 years and I (45) (he, 46) has had an ongoing argument about who and how to ...
A: He seems to be too stuck on this guy thing and will never understand the fact that you need him more ...
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| controll and jealousy | 7/28/2009 | Anisa |
Q: my wife has has been going out with her guy friends from work and never wanted me around them. at ...
A: You are not being controlling at all! This is a matter of respect, and as your wife she needs to ...
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| Jealousy | 7/26/2009 | Anisa |
Q: and I thank you so much for your time, Obviously, the title of my message here is jealousy. I am ...
A: Even the most beautiful woman can have self esteem issues. Keep in mind that men (and women) will ...
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| Jealousy | 7/25/2009 | Anisa |
Q: and I thank you so much for your time, Obviously, the title of my message here is jealousy. I am ...
A: The problem seems to lie within your self esteem. Are you happy with yourself? Are you happy with ...
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| my body | 7/22/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: This hasn't been a problem 'til recently. Lately, my boyfriend has been telling me flaws about my ...
A: Well this is definitely a big problem and honestly I'm not entirely sure why you are still with this ...
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| will doing this change her feelings | 7/21/2009 | Anisa |
Q: If I apologize for the fighting and be better friends, I had a unrequited relationship with her I ...
A: I suggest you sit her down and let her know how you feel about her. Let her know you are willing to ...
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| My 22 year old doesn't get along with my boyfriend of 2 years | 7/21/2009 | Vani |
Q: My 22 year old daughter, who's in college does not like my boyfriend of 2 years. Up until about a ...
A: It's the best that you can do, let her be and work things out. She is a bit aloof as she does not ...
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| i am confused | 7/17/2009 | Kay Lewis |
Q: Me and my boyfriend we are together from past one and half years and we are friends from like 4 ...
A: The basic argument here is that you are requesting that he fill your need for attention from him and ...
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