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| Wife has told me she hates me several times. | 5/10/2008 |
Q: I've been married going on 2 years but together for a total of 7. We have our fights just like every ...
A: Has she said what she really needs from you? If so, what is it? and how have you helped her get that ...
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| I really messed up | 5/7/2008 |
Q: I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was going through ...
A: Yes, fear might be getting in your way of being clear on what you really want, but it may also be ...
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| Trust Issues | 4/23/2008 |
Q: Pls could u advise me on how to trust my fiance again. He has been unfaithful to me i only ...
A: Trust issues will always be present. You must envision what you want in life and live into this. If ...
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| Lying | 4/14/2008 |
Q: First off, thank you so much for taking the time to answer this. I really need advice and answers. ...
A: I don't usually answer inquiries that aren't about marriage and family, but it sounds as if you are ...
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| conflicts | 4/7/2008 |
Q: I am 30 and we have been married 3 years. I love my wife and intend to be with her my whole life ...
A: I'm not sure how to add to this thread...so, if you are interested in learning more, please email me ...
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| anger and bullying | 2/2/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been arguing a lot in front of our children and I worry a lot that this will ...
A: I understand you want to stop the arguing so you're children aren't affected. I have 3 questions for ...
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| ADD vs. hygiene - probably sounds crazy | 2/1/2008 |
Q: I agree with your 5 steps, here's my issue: my husband has Attention Deficit Disorder, and I need to ...
A: First, thank you for taking responsibility for resolving your own problem by not using blame and ...
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| help | 10/21/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend of 3 yrs recently dumped me. he is 37 and im 25. "i dont think i can get over it," ...
A: You sound as if you are a smart young woman and simply in a different stage in life. You may not ...
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| marriage | 9/30/2007 |
Q: I am 52 and he will soon be 62. Married 3 years, together 6 years. After we married he wanted me ...
A: you say you are "trapped." this is a very strong conceptual word describing your life, but is not a ...
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| marriage | 9/29/2007 |
Q: I am 52 and he will soon be 62. Married 3 years, together 6 years. After we married he wanted me ...
A: Three things I want to clarify before working with you further: 1) Do you acknowledge you are the ...
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| Big Fight | 9/27/2007 |
Q: I had a question regarding a fight me and my fiance had the other day. We have been together for 5 ...
A: You may look at this as a slice of your life that represents how you BOTH handle your problems. It ...
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| arguing | 9/19/2007 |
Q: I have been engaged to my boyfriend for 7 months and have been living together for 5. We're both 26. ...
A: wonderful. I'm assuming you read the article on my homepage... To learn of the alternative method ...
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| Between a rock and a hard place | 9/13/2007 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. I feel she might be the one which I will ...
A: Your struggle is quite common. If it's not weight, it's drinking, if it's not drinking, it's sex. ...
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| getting through to my thick-headed husband | 9/12/2007 |
Q: Okay, short and sweet: My husband and I both come from rough-ish childhoods and have brought some ...
A: Living by rules opens up room for failure, as you might have noticed. Marriage bound by rules may, ...
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| I hate my man looking at other women | 9/4/2007 |
Q: Ive got a problem where if my man (soon to be husband) is around any other woman orwatching a tv ...
A: Jealousy is going to take control of you if you don't take control of it, as you noted. Finding the ...
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| help me please | 6/21/2007 |
Q: my wife left me a week ago after saying she wasn't happy . she didn't state anything specific but ...
A: I've been offering free coaching for some time now and have been witnessing strong patterns among ...
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| Trapped by a number | 6/15/2007 |
Q: I started seeing a man a few months back and he has proven to be everything I have ever wanted ...
A: My theory on love is it comes and it goes. My theory on marriage is if there isn't a mutual ...
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| Trapped by a number | 6/12/2007 |
Q: I started seeing a man a few months back and he has proven to be everything I have ever wanted ...
A: You have found love and want to keep it. I understand! Although, I'm not sure of your question. Do ...
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| Boyfriend problems | 6/11/2007 |
Q: I am 13 years old and have been having trouble with my boyfriend for awhile now. We started going ...
A: I'm so glad you are moving on. Wise young woman you are!! :) If someone discusses suicide, they ...
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| Feeling Frustrated. | 6/7/2007 |
Q: Hopefully u can help me. Me and my husband has been recently arguing, I feel lonely sometimes and he ...
A: I see sexual (or the lack thereof) satisfaction as a syndrome to the relationship. If the ...
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| Teen son that lives with his mom | 6/3/2007 |
Q: My son chose to stay home (with his mom) and not attend his step son's birthday party with the ...
A: You want to have a powerful relationship with your son and this is wonderful. If you ever are ...
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| what should I do | 6/2/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 8 years never have cheated. I have treated my husband like crap told him I ...
A: You have been given a gift. You have yet to open it up. It's in your lap, you're looking at it and ...
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| Realtionships Problem | 6/1/2007 |
Q: I have been with my bf for over 2 years we were planning a future together, his family had agreed ...
A: It sounds as if you are in the middle of a lot of people telling other people what to do! And you're ...
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| We've broken up but it's the LAST thing I want | 5/17/2007 |
Q: Myself and my partner have been together for almost 2 years. We were great friends for about a year ...
A: It sounds as if you and your partner have tried to remain conscious in your relationship over the ...
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| newly wed | 5/9/2007 |
Q: Everytime we go out she is pissed off that I am looking at other girls. I have been working hard to ...
A: It's great that you are putting your wife first. It sounds as if you don't know when you are ...
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| Help with break-up | 5/5/2007 |
Q: Hey, Me and my girlfriend of 2 years broke up about a month ago. Leading up to the break-up we'd ...
A: I see you would like to rekindle the relationship that you built with your girlfriend of 2 years. ...
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| Leave Family Friends For Her Career | 5/1/2007 |
Q: Question I'm engaged to a young lady who is in the reserves and was active duty for 2 years away ...
A: You obviously would move mountains to be with this woman. You obviously would move mountains to be ...
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| Boyfriend problems | 4/27/2007 |
Q: I am 13 years old and have been having trouble with my boyfriend for awhile now. We started going ...
A: I would guess you won't listen to this, but it's worth a try. Your boyfriend has issues that he ...
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| current argument | 4/3/2007 |
Q: I want to seek couples therapy, but my partner thinks the counselor will 'side' with me, so is ...
A: This is a common issue among couples considering therapy. It's good you are reaching out for help in ...
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| Argument | 2/18/2007 |
Q: I really want to get an account on MySpac* (I'm 14, by the way), but my parents won't let me because ...
A: It sounds as if you really want to be in communication with your friends. If you could ask them ...
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| How to handle a disrespectful son | 2/16/2007 |
Q: "Hi, My wife and I are having a very difficult time with our son who is 26 years old. He was a ...
A: Your son is trying to tell you something, but he does not know how. He's attempted to tell you in ...
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| advice on a friend... | 1/22/2007 |
Q: my friend came to me for some advice... she says she got drunk and she told her boyfriend that she ...
A: It's wonderful you are trying to help your friend out :) I'm not sure what has happened since you ...
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| Argument | 9/20/2006 |
Q: My husband and I recently had a disagreement and I need an unbiased opinion. He works for a fishing ...
A: It can be hurtful when someone doesn't see your pain AND disregards it when you let them know ...
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